Showing posts with label Yacht Club Bombay. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Yacht Club Bombay. Show all posts

Friday, August 9, 2019

In Downtown Bombay, Still Culling, Clearing and Cleaning at Dad’s and a Cousin Visits


Monday, August 5, 2019
In Downtown Bombay, Still Culling, Clearing and Cleaning at Dad’s and a Cousin Visits

I am getting used to waking up at 6.30 am—either to bird song or the music of the monsoon. While the rest of the household slumbered, I worked on my July newsletter—hard to believe I am actually writing it in the first week of the month.
When the rest woke up, we sat down to a delicious and unusual breakfast was South Indian breakfast organized by Dad from Shiv Sagar—Masala Dosa and Idli Sambhar with coffee—lovely! But I had to wolf it down as there was no time to waste. I had to rush off to take train to meet Kamal at 11.00 am at Yacht Club. I rode the bus, as usual, bought my single first class ticket but was disappointed to find that there was no Bandra local train today as renovation work on the station continues and the place is a holy mess. As I had bought first class ticket, I went into the regular Ladies First—which was actually quite peaceful because by Dadar, I got a seat. I then took the 137 bus to Regal (amazing how quickly I had learned where to wait for buses and what routes they ply in downtown Bombay), and then I walked along Colaba Causeway (still quiet at this early hour) to the Yacht Club.
Kamal arrived in five minutes and we made our way to the mercifully cool Coffee Lounge where I had a fresh lime soda with her. While we were chatting, I saw Nisha da Cunha go by and I ran out to say Hello and then Goodbye to her. Had lovely chat with her as I inquiry after her husband Sylvie who has been doing rather poorly.
After a really good chinwag of about an hour, Kamal took me in her car to the Museum as I wanted to see the Gaitonde exhibition. But what a disappointed ment we had! For, sadly, the museum closed is closed on Mondays! Bummer! OK, we thought as we had some time to kill before my next appointment—let’s go to the Jehangir Art Gallery next door. But what do you know??? That was closed too! Double Bummer!
With no choice, we returned to Kamal’s car and she suggested we get to the Bombay Gym for my 1.00 pm lunch date with Vispi, my former colleague at Jai Hind College and a friend with whom I have stayed in touch. She did not arrive till 1.30 when I called her to find out that her plans had been cancelled at the Asiatic Society due to the rains. So were her classes at Jai Hind College as the rains have played havoc with the city. She could not contact me to inform me…but apologized profusely and said that she owed me a lunch!
     I walked to Churchgate station and went to Burger King to buy a crispy Chicken Burger which was very good as I did need to get a small bite. Once I reached Bandra, I hopped into a rick from Bandra station to Hinduja Hospital to hand over Claim Form B for Russel’s medical insurance and to pick up the daily vital notings chart. That was, unfortunately, not ready and I was called again tomorrow. I took rick back home, then tried to get some shut eye as it had been a somewhat disappointing morning—no such luck! Bunty very talkative and noisy.
Deciding to gain some productivity out of my day, I spent most of the evening cleaning out the files from the area under the dressing table in the bedroom. Most of the stuff was Mum’s hospital records—piles of them in files—all to be disposed of. Bunty was very happy that his crucifix was found as was a South American flute from Peru. I was in the middle of this mammoth task and getting along swimmingly when my cousin Meera texted to tell me that her daughter-in-law Jolene was in town and wanted to meet me. I had been hosted by Jolene and her husband Rolen when I had visited Dubai (where they live) and when only the older girl, Sofia, was around. Now Jolene had a second daughter, Michaela—and I looked forward very much to meeting her.
Meera arrived within the next half hour. I met Sofia and the new baby Michaela and they stayed until we left with them to go for Mass—i.e. Dad and myself. When we retruend from Mass, we had dinner at home: white pumpkin, one cutlet and chicken curry with Sandy’s delicious saffron-flavored china grass for dessert.
            On a day of historic developments in Jammu and Kashmir—the state has been made into a union territory—there is much polarization of political opinion. I sat with Dad to listen to Times Now with Rajdeep Sardesai to get the developing headlines, then took a shower and decided to write a blog post.
            I have no idea where the days fly—but they are certainly very different from the ones I’d had at home in my studio.
            Until tomorrow…

Sunday, April 14, 2019

A Not So Productive Sunday ends with Lovely Concert and Delightful Dinner

Sunday, April 14, 2019
Bombay

A Not So Productive Sunday ends with Lovely Concert and Delightful Dinner

     Namaste from Bombay!
     If I had any hopes of getting any work done today, I was sadly disappointed. However, I did what one is supposed to do on a Sunday--get a bit of leisure and enjoyment from it!

An Unusual Brekkie:
     So I was up early today--at 5.00 am and after blogging and checking my Twitter feed, I got down to transcribing. I stopped for Breakfast--a most unusual one based on goodies that my Dad gave me yesterday that was part of the food offerings he has been receiving from visitors: I had a Punjabi Samosa (brought by a family friend, Bina), a delicious Goa-sausage filled stuffed pau that was then gently battered and shallow-fried (a most unusual concoction from my friend Sharon's Mum, Selda) and jalebis (also bought by Bina). What a fabulous way to start a Sunday, right?

Attending Mass and After...
     Then, because I did manage to find assurance that Michelle Lawrence who had appointed me to do the Second Reading at evening Mass would find a substitute, I had to go for the 9.15 Mass today--it being Palm Sunday and the start of Holy Week. I dressed and left for Mass--quite happy that I managed to finish one really long transcription based on a very long interview I had done). After Mass, I spent quite a while outside the church chatting with my cousin Brian into whom I ran after a very long time. He filled me in on what has been going on with him and we parted after exchanging telephone numbers. It will be fun to meet for dinner at the Bandra Gym sometime.
     I then stopped off at Dad's to leave Russel his vada and in doing so, ended up spending quite a long time there.  Fortunately, I had eaten my breakfast before leaving for Mass or I'd have been starving.
     Back home, I started preparation for the Travel Writing Workshop I will be teaching in Uzbekistan--if, fingers crossed, I manage to get the visa to get there on schedule! That took me about an hour. I had actually done this preparation when I had conducted the same workshop at Narsee Monjee Institute of Management Studies, about two months ago...but I had not saved it anywhere and I lost the Documents when I had my awful computer debacle. So, here I am, having to undertake the prep for that workshop (two sessions of 90 minutes each) all over again.

Lunch-time Chatter:
     I stopped to place an order for our lunch at Bandra Gym: it would be Chinese Pad Thai Noodles, Rawas Fish with Chilli and Basil and Garlic Pepper Vegetables. I then continued to prepare my lessons when Samir from the gym called to tell me it was ready. I went there, picked up the food and went straight to Dad's. Poor fellow! He is having really a hard time putting in his dentures. He simply does to know how to do it and they are either too loose and keep falling off or causing him sudden twinges of pain. I had no idea how complicated they are be.
     Lunch done, I sat chatting with Dad for a long time. He is not keeping too well and his energy levels are very low. As he says, he is more mentally disturbed than anything else with the complicated prognosis we have received over Russel's situation and he is probably wondering how and where he can find the inner resources to take on all these challenges. This from a man who is usually so stoic and so upbeat that he is always telling us that we must face the challenges that life throws at us bravely and prayerfully.

Off to a Kiddies' Concert at the NCPA:
     I went back home after my lunch and chat with Dad and thought I would take a quick nap before I had to leave the house for my ride into the city. My friend Kamal had offered me a ticket to the concert given by the students of the NCPA's Music Academy at the Tata Theater. As I have been interviewing a few of the adults who are associated with this 'school' as administrators or teachers, Kamal thought I would like to find out what it is that these kids are actually learning in this school (the first one of its kind in India) and how they fare as musicians as a result of their training.
     I took a shower and got dressed, took a bus to Bandra Station, got a slow train to Churchgate, found a cab right outside the station to get me to Nariman Point and was at the appointed spot at the Tata Theater right on time to meet Kamal. There were a few faces with which I have become familiar (Jimi and Hutoxi Billimoria, Xeres Unvala, Dolly Thakore, my former colleague at Jai Hind College, Vispi Balaporia) and after meeting some of Kamal's friends, we settled down in our seats to enjoy the concert.
     In a word, it was brilliant! Given the age of the kids and the number of years each of them has been studying, it was astounding with what virtuosity that are playing their chosen instruments. There were solos on the piano, trumpet, clarinet, flute, cello and double bass--all the soloists were accompanied by a few members of the Symphony Orchestra of India--I recognized another person I had interviewed, Francis Mendes--under the conducting baton of Marat Bissangaliev (whom I have also interviewed). His sister, Aida, who is the resident Piano teacher, was resplendent at the end, in a beautiful salwar khameez outfit. I really did have such a good time listening to these kids who played a range of thrilling music with some very familiar pieces such as 'Mexican Hat Dance' and 'The Entertainer' as well as far more classical work by Grieg and Johan Christian Bach (Johan Sebastian Bach's son). Really really wonderful! Hats off to the kids (for the undoubted hours of practice it must take them to play like this) and to their teachers (all of whom as Kazakhs) for their dedication and insistence on perfection.

Dinner at the Yacht Club:
     Kamal, who is a member there, suggested that we adjourn for an early dinner at the Yacht Club and we did. It was a nice ride to the Gateway of India (which is simply bursting with people on a warm Sunday evening in April with most schools out now) and I admired her negotiating skills as she drove her vehicle through the haphazard traffic and scary humans hordes until we entered the club and the valet took over her car.
     Dinner was upstairs in the dining room where we started off with drinks (vodka and tonic for her, a G and T for me--and believe me, nothing is more refreshing on a warm summer's evening in Bombay than this elixir!). And then we ordered: a steak for Kamal, roasted chicken with mushroom sauce for me, both served with mashed potato and grilled veg.  Lovely, lovely, lovely. We enjoyed our wonderful heart to heart and I was grateful for Kamal's empathetic ear as I told her all about Russel's prognosis and the strains that lie ahead for him and the family members who will be caring for him. Dessert was a Bread and Butter Pudding that I thought would be more in the English style with the warm creaminess of a semi-set custard--but it was actually simply Bread Pudding--set far too much for my liking.
     Kamal dropped me off to Churchgate Station from where I took a train back to Bandra seated in the general compartment which was practically empty but had enough people in it to make me feel secure--I never travel in a compartment if there is only one person in it.
     Back home, I had to wait for quite a while to get the bus (they are probably few and far between on a Sunday) and sat to watch The Sinner--but I found myself dozing through most of it as I simply could not keep my eyes open. A few texts exchanged with Llew saw me through the end of the day as I nodded off to sleep.
     Until tomorrow...  

   

Sunday, March 24, 2019

Discovering Foy Nissen's Bombay, Brunch at the Yacht Club and Another Interview

Saturday, March 23, 2019
Bombay

Discovering Foy Nissen's Bombay, Brunch at the Yacht Club and Another Interview

     Namaste from Bombay!
     I had such a lovely Saturday! It was the perfect combination of leisure and work and it filled me with a sense of accomplishment. I am also beginning to feel that sense of urgency to accomplish work when the knowledge that time is fleeting hits you--the fact that soon I will not have access to all these people here in Bombay is starting to worry me... I have miles to go before I sleep.
     That said, I had much to accomplish today. I awoke very early--about 3.00 am (if you can believe it!) and since I could not get back to sleep, I got to work and transcribed another interview as I am still trying to catch up. Then a quick breakfast of muesli and coffee later, I dressed comfortably, carried a bottle of water and my camera, and was off. I was headed to the city for my 9.00 am appointment on the steps of the Town Hall at Fort for my guided historic walk to discover Foy Nissen's Bombay.
     I took a bus and a train (sadly, I had to change trains as the one in which I jumped terminated at Dadar--I had to change platforms before getting into one that ran all the way to Churchgate). There, I found a cab and made it to the appointed spot at the appointed hour with time to spare.

Who was Foy Nissen And Why Was the Tour Named After Him?
     So who was this man with the strange name and why was the tour named after him? At the outset, let me say that I knew Foy. His last name is a result of the fact that his grandfather was Danish. At some point, marriage with an Englishwoman brought the family in contact with England where, I believe, Foy's father was born. He was a British civil servant at the time of the Raj and his work brought him to India. Foy was born in Poona. The family moved to Bombay when he was a child. He studied at the Cathedral and John Connon School where his mother was a teacher. He then left for England for University. He earned his Bachelors and Master's degrees at the University of Cambridge after which he returned to Bombay, his first love, where he began working at the Times of India and developed his hobby as an amateur photographer and amateur historian. Later, he took on  a full-time job at the British Council (which is where I got to know him, about thirty years ago, when I was being given a British Council Scholarship to go to Oxford).
      Foy lived in the same building called Olympus on Altamount Road in Bombay, for most of his life, the neighbor of two spinster sisters called the Mehra Sisters who looked after him as the years went by and especially through the dementia that plagued him and eventually took  his life. He made them executors of his will and his estate and they turned over the bulk of his books to the Asiatic Library and the bulk of his photographs to the Jehangir Nicholson Foundation that was named after a Parsi collector who had amassed a vast modern art collection that is now in the possession of the foundation that is named after him.
     The Jehangir Nicholson Foundation and the Prince of Wales Museum (now called the Shivaji Museum) are running an exhibition, for the first time, on the photographic work of Foy Nissen, who passed away last August. The walk was organized by a company called Bombaywalla which is headed by an Oxford-educated historian called Simin Patel (whose father is Jehangir Patel, Editor of the magazine, Parisana, that I had interviewed a few days ago). Simin did her Ph.D. at Balliol College, Oxford, under the guidance of historian Polly O'Hanlon, the subject of her thesis being 'Colonial Bombay and the Parsis of Colonial Bombay'. She is currently working on a book on the Irani Restaurants of Bombay. I have followed her on Twitter for a long time and have gotten to know quite a lot about Bombay's older monuments through her writing and her passion for the city, which I share. Meeting her was a real delight as she turned out to be a very sweet and very knowledgeable person. I must also state that I was put on to her by my friend Murali Menon who is based in London and who is an avid reader of my blog and her's! These global Twitter and blog contacts are also very interesting to me.

A Walking Tour of Foy Nissen's Bombay:
     The tour cost Rs. 300 per head and Simin was on the steps of the Town Hall collecting money from participants when I got there at just before 9.00 am.  It was not long before we started the tour with a short introduction to Foy Nissen whose English relatives were actually on the tour with us--they were visiting Bombay from the UK and were able to add some tidbits to the commentary that Simin offered. 
     Following an introduction to Foy Nissen, we entered the Town Hall where the Bombay Asiatic Society is based. I had done an extensive self-guided tour myself of this space last October--but it was nice to be told about Lord Malcolm, former Governor of Bombay, whose marble sculpture dominates the vestibule upstairs. Foy adored books and adored libraries and he spent a great deal of time at the Asiatic Society Library pouring for hours over the records to be found here. We were able to see a facsimile copy of his library card (which I thought was a very thoughtful addition to our tour) before Simin told us a little bit about the marble worthies scattered about the place: Frere, Carnac, Sir Jamshedji Jijibhoy, Bombay's first baronet, etc. Sadly, we did not enter the Reading Room which rather surprised me! What is a library without its Reading Room? To see just the foyer was most disappointing to me: luckily, I had spent a lot of time here about six months ago and clearly remembered its gorgeous Corinthian columns with their freshly refurbished gilding, the grand chandeliers and the gorgeous round teak tables that accommodate modern-day readers just as they once did colonial ones.
     Past the Asiatic Society, we walked along the arcades of Horniman Circle, past the swanky showrooms of Hermes and Christian Louboutin to pause outside the Bombay Samachar Building and take a picture of the vintage Roller (Rolls-Royce) parked outside it--apparently belonging to the Editor, one Mr. Cama (according to Simin). We took a group picture there...I have to state that we were about 25 participants on this walk from different walks of life--there were lawyers, historians, journalists and simply people, like me, with a passion for Bombay and its colonial monuments. I met a cheese-maker named Mansi who was a former student of NYU--she did her Master's there and was quite delighted to meet me.
     Simin spoke about the garden at Horniman Circle especially the decorative, tall wrought iron gates and railings--these features had also caught my eye and reminded me very much of the gates of London's parks. I was especially reminded of Victoria Park in the East End that I had toured with my friend, the same Murali Menon mentioned above--also an amateur historian and lover of old buildings and local history. I have taken many an interesting walk in London in his company and I would dearly wish to meet someone else who shares my passion for these colonial parts of Bombay with whom I could stroll around at leisure.
     Just past Horniman Circle, we paused right opposite the premises of St. Thomas' Cathedral, Bombay's premier Anglican Church, and one of my very favorite places in the city. Although we stopped to take in the facade and Simin commented on the clock that dominates the tower stating that Foy would have been disappointed to see its black hands (as he always believed they ought to be gilded), again, I was disappointed that we did not go inside the church to admire examples of the most outstanding Victorian mortuary sculpture in the city. But then I realized that since Foy photographed mainly the exteriors of these buildings that was where we were being led and what we were being shown.
     From here, we walked along Sir Pherozeshaha Mehta Road towards Flora Fountain which has been recently refurbished and unveiled. The fountain was actually playing and we had a chance to see it up close and personal and to take in the name of the sculptor, one R.N. Shaw. carved into the top tier of the monument that features Flora, Roman Goddess of flowers with the four accompanying female icons that represent various aspects of agriculture--fruits, flowers, grain and foliage.
     Past the Fountain, we continued our walk along D.N. (Dadabhai Naoroji Road) in the direction of the Museum and arrived at Kala Ghoda where we stopped outside the Army and Navy Building which is one of the trinity of grand colonial buildings in that spot--the other two being the David Sassoon Library and Reading Room and, of course, my own alma mater, glorious Elphinstone College.
   Simin paused to tell us something of Foy's association with the Army and Navy Building which is named for the Army and Navy Stores which was one of the three department stores of which the city of Bombay could boast prior to Independence. The other two were Whiteway and Laidlaws (where my Aunt Alice, my Dad's sister, once use to work)and Evans-Fraser which is where The Bombay Store is now located (on Sir P.M. Road). As the Army and Navy stores was the most expensive of the three, Foy's parents only shopped there on rare occasions and he could only afford the rare cup of tea there. Simin dropped a nugget of fascinating information when she told us that the former colonial restaurant known as The Wayside Inn, in which, in my college days, I had often enjoyed fish and chips and where I had eaten Colman's mustard for the first time, had closed a few years ago.  Apparently, its counter was purchased by the David Sassoon Library and is used now as its main Reception Desk. I love these stories of the recycling of old furniture. A few days ago, the actor Vijaya Mehta had told me, in an interview, that when the Bhulabhai Desai Institute on Warden Road was being closed down, Bhulabhai Desai, the lawyer who had fought so many legal cases against the colonial British Government from his desk, had asked her if there was anything she would like from the premises. She opted for his desk--not only because it would always remind her of him but because it was a part of the Indian Freedom Struggle. I love stories like these that the people I am interviewing are sharing with me.
     Once we got to know what this part of Bombay meant to Foy, we were marched past the Jehangir Art Gallery into the compound of the Shivaji Museum where tickets were obtained on our behalf and we were led inside to see the actual Exhibition itself.

Viewing the Exhibition Called 'Foy Nissen's Bombay':
     I have now become very familiar with the Shivaji Museum and its layout, thanks to the many visits I have paid during the last six months as I have examined and studied its entire collection. This exhibition is on the second floor near the Textile Gallery. One is greeted by a large-scale black and white photograph of Horniman Circle that we had just traipsed through. Inside, there are only black and white photographs that are grouped thematically: still lives of the various sculptures of colonial men and women who had played a role in the development of the city--some are headless and all are in the Sculpture Graveyard at the Victoria Garden (the Bombay Zoo) where Foy made many visits just to photograph these remnants of our city's colonial past. There was a Religious grouping which features mosques, temples, churches, synagogues, even a Parsi Fire Temple. The architectural splendor of the monument groups around the Fort got pride of place on the main wall with a map graphically presenting their locations. There were also pictures taken outside Bombay as in places like Bhuj. I think the exhibition gave a very good idea of the obsession of this man with history, photography, architecture and the past. All lovers of Bombay ought to go and see this lovely little exhibition.
     What was also quite wonderful about this exhibition and could easily be ignored was the vitrine containing Foy's own actual cameras, cases, lenses, and other equipment with a couple of the rolls of negatives and his own hand-written instructions and cataloguing system that he had in place. It is these gems that add to the overall quality of an exhibition--so it is not just the photos alone that ought to have been pointed out to us but the equipment that he used (that he actually handled himself) through which these wonderful works were produced that any visitor ought not to miss.
     I have to say that I am glad to find what they call "walk-throughs" of art galleries (but what we call 'docent tours' in the West) now being given in Bombay. This one was given by Kamna, an employee of the Jehangir Nicholson Foundation. It left me wanting to know more about the Foundation and its work.

Brunch with my Friend Kamal at the Yacht Club:
     I was done with the Walk and Museum Visit at exactly 11.30 am when I was just in time to make it to my next appointment--brunch at the Yacht Club to which my friend Kamal Mulla had invited me. I walked to the venue and then met her at the elevator as she was riding upstairs with two other ladies.  She introduced me to her friends Shireen and Meher and at the top, we ran into the guest of honor of the afternoon, a lady named Linda White, who was visiting Bombay from Montreal, Canada, before attending a conference in Delhi. There was one more person expected to join us later, Meenal Kshirsagar who is a retired French Professor at the University of Bombay and had graduated also from Elphinstone College in his heyday. Her husband has a senior position at the Shivaji Museum and she had attended the opening of the Foy Nissen Exhibition last week.
     The two other ladies (Shireen and Meher) happened to be visiting from London and I soon discovered that Meher is a good friend of my friend Firdaus (Dr. G) and the niece of my former professor of English (and good friend), the late Homai Shroff. I asked Meher if her surname was Toorkey and when she said Yes, I told her that her name has been in my phone book for thirty years--although I had never met her.  The reason she exists in my phone book is because, thirty years ago, when Firdaus and I were at Oxford, he had left to spend a weekend in London and would be staying at her place. Before he left, I had asked him for a contact number and he had given me Meher's! She is a concert pianist and music teacher in London and we had a lot to talk about as the afternoon went on.
     Most of us had the Mulligatawny Soup (most delectable!) and a sandwich (though I had the Chicken Lemon Pepper Salad) as I am staying high-protein in my diet. I had a diet Coke too and all of us passed on dessert.  There was never a dull moment as many of these ladies present had attended Queen Mary School and had stories to swap about their classmates and friends. I enjoyed the happy camaraderie around the table and even though I was meeting all these ladies (except Kamal) for the first time, there was so much to keep me stimulated that I wasn't left at a loose end for a minute.  What a lovey afternoon it was!
  
Back Home for Another Interview:                 
      We were all done by 2.15pm when I said my thanks and goodbyes and hopped into a bus from across the Museum that took me to Churchgate Station. I picked up a Waldorf Salad from Gaylords and took it home on the train to Bandra. A bus then took me to the Bandra Gymkhana where I had an appointment at 3.30pm with Danesh Khambata--only to discover the the gym is closed in the afternoon from 3.15 till 4.30 pm. So we made our way to Candies's, a teenage hangout which is a tad too noisy for me and not conducive to the conducting of an interview. We found a quiet corner away from the noise but in a non-air-conditioned part of the place where I was very uncomfortable as there was not even a fan there.
     My interview with Danesh went well, however, and I learned so much about the very interesting work that he and his partners are doing through a theater group called Silly Point Productions. He was kind enough to pick up a Chocolate Mousse for me and a coffee for himself although I told him I was on a strict diet and would not have anything to eat or drink as I had just finished lunch. I ended up having the mousse but I carried the cheesecake back home for Russel and Dad who enjoyed it. Danesh was wonderful to chat to--again, he is very unassuming and casual about what he and his mates have accomplished. I am realizing that a lot of Bombay's performers work with a group--this is the sort of group that offers camaraderie, lasting friendships and the support that actors need on the long struggle to get work, funding, etc. Unlike writers or actors in the States who seem to go for long periods of time with no work, these folks create their own working opportunities by writing their own material, then going out to find corporate sponsors who will fund their ventures, give them work and make them money. It is quite an amazing example of entrepreneurship and I am quite impressed by their efforts and their output.
     By the time I finished with Danesh, I was quite exhausted and decided to spend the evening with Dad and Russel. I was there for over an hour when I said bye to them. Dad was not going for the 7.00 pm Mass as he decided to go for the 9.15 Mass tomorrow which is to be followed by a Parish Quiz on the Bible (that both he and I are interested in attending).
     Back home, I finally had a chance to kick back and relax and I marked the arrival of the warm days by pouring myself a wonderful G and T which I enjoyed with a few nuts on which I nibbled as I watched a movie called Wild Oats with Jessica Lange and Shirley McLaine. It was not too bad actually and worth a few good laughs. I loved the role of the con man played by Billy Connolly.
     What is really amazing to me is that true to all predictions, it turned warm and humid the very day after Holi! So I guess the lovely weather of the past three months is a thing of the past and I will need to steel myself for the uncomfortable months ahead of me.  Thank goodness for my air-conditioned studio!
     Having accomplished so much today, I was ready to call it a day at 10.30 but after a long chat with Llew on the phone, it took me a very long time actually to fall asleep--during which time I watched a few episodes of Grace and Frankie. 
     Until tomorrow...
   
         


 

Wednesday, March 13, 2019

Two Interviews, Lunch with Firdaus and Concluding My Study of the Shivaji Museum

Tues, March 12, 2019
Bombay

Two Interviews, Lunch with Firdaus and Concluding My Study of the Shivaji Museum

Namaste from Bombay!
The Show Must Go On...Laptop or No Laptop! So although I still feel sick inside and heartbroken in a way that is hard to describe, I am trying hard to quell my low spirits and keep my momentum going. I am barely responding to email as the use of my little keyboard on my Ipad (which serves me well to draft blog posts when I am traveling—and now at thus time), is not my preferred mode for corresponding with people. Still, I can only hope I will get my laptop back and be able to start afresh. There will be much lost...I have reconciled myself to that. But, hopefully, I can still go on with my life.
     Awaking at 5.30 am on what was going to be a busy day, I blogged, made my muesli and coffee breakfast, showered, dressed and hastened off to Dad’s to be present when Valerian got to Russel for his physiotherapy session. He ended by insisting that we consider knee replacement surgery as he is convinced that Russel would be a good candidate for it and that he can take over his post-surgery physiotherapy to  ensure that Russel walks well again. He is worried about his current lack of stability that does not make it possible for him to walk independently. He feels that only through knee replacement will he be able to come back to normal again. I felt greatly disturbed by this diagnosis, to be frank, and feel that I need to pray very earnestly on this issue so that we might have the right discernment.
I had to leave at 9.30 am, however, as I had an interview meeting at 11.00 am in the city for which I needed to take a bus and a train to get there.

An Interview with Jehangir Patel:
Jehangir Patel brings out a bi-weekly magazine called Parsiana that has documented the lives of the Indian Parsi community for decades. I thought it would be worth chatting with him as he would be able to throw some light for me on the Parsis as audience and consumers of Western performing arts. But I think he was more interested in focusing on the Parsi contribution to Medicine, Law, industry, philanthropy, etc. than the questions I was directing at him. Still, overall, I got some really valuable statistical data from him—he was able to rattle off facts and figures on Parsis and their (dwindling) presence and numbers in India—all of which is steadily impacting their patronage of the performing Arts and their contribution to it.
  We also realized that we have many friends in common. He has invited me to lunch with him next Monday at the Rippon Club when my Oxford friend Firdaus (whom I affectionately refer to as “Dr. G”) will be present too. I did not realize, until Jehangir told me so, that Firdaus reviews books (mainly non-fiction) for his magazine almost every fortnight (and I brilliant job I am sure he does of it too as I have yet to find someone better read that Dr. G). 

Lunch with Dr. G:
As  it happens, I was scheduled to have lunch with Dr. G at 1.30 pm at the Yacht Club, but since I finished early with Jehangir, I texted to find out if Firdaus could be there earlier! And he could! So, by 12.30 pm, we were seated at a table and sipping something cold to drink—a Diet Coke for me (as I am still watching carb intake) and a coconut water for him. I told him my computer woes and he was so relieved to find out that I had kept all my Fulbright Interview notes! He too soothed me and told me that at the most, I would have to repeat about six months worth of work, but that it would be a good way for me to refresh and review what I had gathered over the past few months.  Yes, I suppose that was a very positive way of looking at it and I would do so.
We had such a wonderful chinwag! Over Fish Arabiata and grilled beans and peas for me and Mulligatawny Soup and Cousous Salad for Firdaus, we talked about everything. And I mean everything.  There is never ever a dull second as we catch up on so many things. 
At the end of our long chat. Firdaus and I walked behind the Taj Hotel to his apartment so that I could finally see it.  He had moved into this gorgeous sprawling 2-bedroom apartment a few years ago but I had never had a chance to visit him there as there were always guests staying with him. Firdaus has a really cozy arrangement with a number of friends in Europe which allows  him to offer them accommodation when they come to India and to stay with them when he is in the varied European cities that he adores such as London and Berlin—as an opera buff, he travels to these cities to catch particular performances. 
And what a beautiful apartment it is—and in such an enviable location too! Indeed he is fortunate...but he also deserves every bit of that good fortune. For a nicer chap would be hard to find. Before I left, he presented me with a book that he thought I would love—-Belonging by his friend Urmi Sinha who received a lot of very positive notice for it. I feel sorry that my heavy work schedule makes it almost impossible for me to devote any time to reading...but I did accept the gift graciously and will read it sometime...

Finishing my Survey of the Shivaji Museum:
As I was at Colaba and it was still only 3.00 pm, it made sense for me to return to the Museum to finish off those galleries on the ground floor that I had still to peruse. I was not sure how long they would take, but this is what I saw today:
 1. The Sculpture Gallery: Filled with wonderful sandstone and granite sculpture, it features deities from three Indian religions—Hinduism, Buddhism and Jainism. Some of them were gigantic monoliths (I would suspect from rock cut cave-temples). Done in stone, there was basalt, slate and other media used to carve seated, standing and reclining bas-reliefs and free-standing figures from as close by as Elephanta Caves and as far away as Peshawar. Really striking.
2. Gandhara Sculpture: These wonderful sandstone works, featuring the Buddha and Bodhisatavas, are executed in the Greco-Roman tradition in the Indo-Gangetic plain and came to be called Gandhara Sculpture. I am familiar with the tradition through the Standing Gupta Buddha that I show at the Metropolitan Museum of Art in New York on my Highlights tour—so I really enjoyed taking in the minute details of these pieces. There was also a Jain altar in here that was very special.
 3. The Assyrian Palace Reliefs: Who would ever know that Bombay has a fabulous collection of Assyrian bas-reliefs in alabaster derived from the Palace of Ashurnisirpal II of the 9th to 8th centuries BC? There have a gallery dedicated exclusively to them and are beautifully lit to emphasize their features. Given that one of the highlights of the British Museum and the Metropolitan Museum’s Near Eastern sections are similar reliefs from the Palace of Ashurbanipal, these are treasures that I was simply astounded to find in Bombay. The British Museum’s series of bas-relief sculptures called The Hunt is one of its great collections upon which I have lavished many an idle hour in contemplation. So to see these here in Bombay—albeit in a much smaller size but no less detailed and superbly executed—was a singular treat.
4. The Indus Valley Civilization: Wonderful collections of jewelry, pottery, sculpture, etc. in this section take us back to the 5th or 6th century and the discovery of a thriving civilization in the Indus Valley that reaches its culmination in the excavations at Mohenjo-Daro (now in Pakistan), Harappa and Lothal.  They have a wonderful clay replica of the Great Bath at Mohenjo-Daro and a lot of other artifacts (many of which are plaster replicas). I believe the bulk of these treasures as in the National Museum of Pakistan. 
This is the section that every Indian school girl and school boy ought to visit—so I am saddened to see that despite having made so many trips to the Shivaji Museum over the past few months as I have studied the collection, I have never come across a school group on a field trip to this place. It is a dreadful waste of a top-rate resource in the city.
5. The Natural History section: I cannot walk through the corridors of the Natural History section of this museum without being taken back sharply and with a pang to my childhood when my super-enlightened parents took us on weekend visits to this space and introduced us to the joys of museum-visiting when we were so young. I have little doubt that my passion for museums was nurtured through these wonderful Saturday evening visits and I have vivid memories of my mother pointing out and explaining things to us as kids.  How very blessed we were in our parents! Truly! 
That said, the Natural History section was always our favorite when we were little and I can remember being mesmerized by the dioramas that house Indian fauna—they could easily rival anything found in the Natural History Museum at Kensington in London—but then it was the same Victorians who built that wonderful temple to Natural History who built this sterling place here in their colony that they considered the jewel in their crown. So the same vision and the same mindset is responsible for this terrific taxidermied collection that is beautifully labeled and displayed. I adored my time in this space as a child and I adored it this afternoon. I went through it rapidly, however, taking in the vignettes that featured tigers at a waterhole, a splendid Kashmiri stag in the mountains, a rhino in  the wetlands...that sort of thing. Just brilliant!
So with that I have finished my study of the former Prince of Wales Museum in Bombay (now called the Shivaji Museum). It was on my Bombay To-Do List and now it has been ticked off.  I have enjoyed my solitary forays into this space where I have learned so much about Indian art and craftsmanship. But my favorite part of this museum is the top floor featuring the collection of European paintings and decorative arts by Dorab Tata. Someday it would be nice to see the museum offering highlights tours in English and Hindi to the public. I understand, from Firdaus, that the current Director of the Museum, Sabyasachi Mukherjee, is a really wonderful person and I can only hope that after having spent so much money refurbishing the building—interior and exterior—they will now pour in some more resources to make it a living educational institution. So many visitors come in, day after day, but I would like to see them really take something way in the same way that visitors to the British Museum or the Metropolitan Museum go away awed—because indeed there is a lot to feel awed about in this space. I am exceeding proud of my Indian heritage when I am in this place.

Brief Rest and then Another Interview:
I then took a bus that brought me to Churchgate Station from where I hopped into a train and then another bus to get home within an hour. I relaxed with a hot lemony cuppa and a quarter guava and then got ready for my next official appointment of the day—yet another interview: yes, I did two in one day!
  This time I was interviewing Naresh Fernandes, a journalist who has published a historical book on Jazz in Bombay called Taj Mahal Fox Trot. I have started reading the book in the library of the NCPA and am about half way through it. It is incredible to me how rich is the material he has gathered and how beautifully he has collated it chronologically to create a thorough work for which posterity will be grateful.
Naresh lives on quiet St. Cyril’s Road in Bandra in a building lyrically named Chez Nous. He arrived about five minutes after I got to his home and had thoughtfully purchased ribbon sandwiches and sponge cup cakes for me—of course, I ate nothing as I am trying to curb my food intake for the moment. 
When we got down to talking, I found the breath of his knowledge amazing although he does not agree with my thesis that the mainstreaming of Western Performing Arts in Bombay in a fairly new phenomenon. He kept insisting (and offered examples to substantiate his claim) that it has been going on for at least 150 years. I, on the other hand, cling on to the belief that the examples he provides, while valid, are far too isolated to be able to claim that it was always a cosmopolitan world. We shall see as I continue with my research exactly to what conclusions I shall come. What stand I can take as I turn my research into chapters will determine everything. Naresh is also extremely personable and made a very interesting subject to interview—not merely because he has a true grip on the subject and has conducted detailed research himself into the matter but because he is able to seize on facts and bring them into the argument quite effectively indeed. 
     I was done with Naresh at about 9.00 pm at which point, I strolled back home on a beautiful late winter’s evening, and got down to my dinner—mince, dal and ground spinach with corn. I watched snatches of Comic Relief’s special skits on The Vicar of Dibley on You Tube and loved them. But soon my eyes were closing and I was ready to drop off.
No news yet on the fate of my laptop—Himanshu tells me that the second (deeper) scan (using his software, Deep Drill)  is still going on and will only be done tomorrow afternoon. I hope to hear something tomorrow evening. 

     Until tomorrow.       

Wednesday, November 28, 2018

Interview with a Retired Professor, Lunch with Firdaus and a Meeting with Fr. Tony

Wednesday, November 28, 2018
Bombay

Interview With a Retired Professor, Lunch with Firdaus and a Meeting with Fr. Tony

     Namaste from Bombay!
     I had another delightful day--productive and yet fun.
     Awake at 6.30, I blogged--it took a bit longer than usual as I had so much exciting stuff to report-- washed, ate my Club Sandwich (chicken cutlets and cheese) for brekkie with two cups of coffee (as I had much to wash down), showered and left for my 11. 30 am appointment downtown.
     In a bus and then a Bandra local train, I reached Churchgate a little early. My interview was scheduled at 11.30 am. I walked across the Oval Maidan on foot on a lovely morning taking in views of the glorious Victorian Gothic buildings of the Fort area--I can never tire of this sight. Then, I walked past the Bombay High Court and arrived at the C.J. Hall and went past the YMCA International House and St. Anne's School to arrive, after a half hour walk, at one of my favorite shops in the whole of Bombay--Phillips Antiques.

Exploring Phillips Antiques:
      This amazing antiques store has been a Bombay fixture for decades--more than a century as it dates from the 1870s. During my college years, when my pocket money was just Rs. 30 per month, I used to stand outside the shop windows and gaze upon the treasures contained within. In those days, there used to be a lot of European bric-a-brac in those windows: porcelain, glass, crystal, silver--acquired, I believe, through the large number of expatriates who lived in Bombay and were being repatriated to their home countries.  Through the years, as my finances improved, I bought items that were easily portable. I proudly own a set of original 19th century engravings depicting The Battle of Mooltan than decorate my dining room. And I have three framed photographic portraits of Victorian Gothic buildings by Willets and George Gilbert Scott just above my bar in my family room.
     Walking into Phillips Antiques this time round, I was struck by the lack of any European items.  Now it is exclusively Indian antiques that they sell--Indian silver, brass, wooden carved temple fragments, wooden toys, bits of doors from Rajasthan and Gujarat--that sort of thing. The biggest-selling item right now seems to be prints and lithographs of engravings as well as maps of colonial India and colonial Bombay. There are also prints of the ads that announced steamers sailings to and from India and for British colonial products such as Pears Soap. I had a bit of a poke around and found nothing to really catch my eye. What really did attract me was up on the wall: a set of a dozen prints of paintings by Raja Ravi Verma which were then embellished with fragments of fabric, beads, sequins, etc. to create a three-dimensional collage of portraits from Hindu mythology.  These were selling for a steep Rs. 64,000 each! I do believe that they would create the greatest effect if exhibited together on a single wall.

Off to my Interview with Nisha da Cunha:
     My next port of call was the Yacht Club where I had an 11.30 am interview scheduled with Nisha da Cunha who is 85 years old and does not miss her daily workout at the Gym of the Club! At 85, she does not look a day over 65, is as slim as a reed, spritely, vivacious and filled with good cheer and humor. I have a history with Nisha--which if you will allow me, I will explain...
     Thirty-five years ago, I had competed for the Cambridge-Nehru Scholarship to go to the University of Cambridge to do my Masters in English Literature. Nisha, who is a graduate of Newnham College, Cambridge, and was then Head of the Department of English at St. Xavier's College, Bombay, was assigned to interview me and actually spend half a day with me to find out if I was a worthy candidate for the prestigious award. I was competing with a bunch of scientists, mathematicians, etc. I spent a lovely morning with Nisha but I bet I did not make an impression as she did not remember me at all! Needless to say, I did not get the Scholarship. Which might be just as well, because a few years later, I got a British Council Scholarship and ended up at The Other Place--Oxford! And the rest is, of course, history. Also, as I pointed out to Nisha, I might not have got the Cambridge-Nehru Scholarship as a graduate student but I did get the Fulbright-Nehru Fellowship as a Senior Researcher! Life presents the strangest coincidences... I must add that Nisha refused to believe I had applied 35 years ago--she kept looking at me and insisting I was not a day over 35 myself! You can bet she made my day! She said, "I looked outside the gym and saw this little girl and thought this could not be the Fulbright Fellow who has come to meet me. No way!" She kept touching my skin and saying, "How do you do it?"
     Secondly, after resigning from St. Xavier's College after a 35 year run there (the politics of academia can stink, believe me, and she felt bullied by another faculty-member in her department), she took to writing and produced 4 fabulous collections of short stories--all published by Penguin India in Delhi.  They were so good that they inspired me to start writing short fiction myself. I still have a collection of 12 stories of which only two have been published so far: 'Stranger on a Bus' and 'Unfinished Symphony' (they are both on my website). Maybe someday...
     I had begun working on my post-doctoral dissertation at St. John's University at New York and needed to find a topic on which to sink my teeth. I chose to work on 'The Politics of Mourning: Grief-Management in Cross-Cultural Fiction' which was later published as my second book. Nisha's stories fit the brief perfectly and I wrote to her from New York requesting her to send me copies of her book reviews--which she promptly did. (She does not remember this either!). After my book was published, I devised a course for the Liberal Studies Program at New York University on 'Mourning in Cross-Cultural Fiction' and used her stories to illustrate theoretical concepts from Freud to Elizabeth Kulber-Ross. I photocopied her stories and circulated them in class as handouts and have spent many an enlightening afternoon dissecting them with my students.
     So, at several points my work has intersected with the life of Nisha da Cunha--and yet she had no clue.  So, it was with the utmost pleasure that I waited for her to finish her workout and then begin to interview her.  The reason our paths were crossing again (this time, literally) was because she had been an active producer and director of English language theater in Bombay and had worked tirelessly while at St. Xavier's College to stage quality drama. She also happens to be married to Advertising man, Sylvester (Sylvie) da Cunha, brother of Gerson da Cunha (whom I shall be interviewing on Friday). The names of Sylvie and Gerson are intrinsically linked with quality drama productions in Bombay. Sadly, at 88, Sylvie is now battling severe Parkinson's Disease and cannot give an interview himself. Nisha would be speaking not just for herself but also for her husband.  She is also very proud of her son, their only child, Rahul, who is a producer in his own right and founded Rage Theater Company--he has produced a vast number of plays and is now one of the organizers of Sing, India, Sing, a dramatic extravaganza that contains originally composed music, a wonderful plot line and a bevy of stunning singers and musicians--the best that Bombay knows right now. I will also be speaking to Rahul in due course.
     It was fascinating chatting with Nisha--she is the daughter of former Minister of Finance, H. M. Patel who was an Oxonian himself (St. Catherine's College)--and had four sisters--one of whom was the magnificent Usha Amin Katrak who played Medea and Julius Caesar in Theater Group Productions.  She was raised in Delhi and graduated from Miranda House with English Honors before proceeding to Cambridge and then to Bombay. Finding out about her creative life was an endlessly inspiring and fascinating experience for me and I do believe, the more I think about it, that there is so much I owe to the women I met during my early years who inspired me so much to reach out and grasp at every opportunity that lay ahead. Anyway, Nisha and I parted in an hour as she had to rush home to pick up her nursing duties for Sylvie. Her parting shot was, "You must note that I am not a Goan. I am a Gujarati and a Hindu." My talk with her will remain one of the high points of my research here in Bombay.
     As we were chatting, our mutual friend Firdaus turned up for his 1.00pm lunch appointment with me.  He is Nisha's work out pal--they are at the gym each day at the same time. Firdaus and I received scholarships to Exeter College, Oxford, the same year (1987) and have remained firm friends through the decades.  He is a member of the Yacht Club and it has often been my pleasure to have a drink with him several times in this glorious place overlooking Bombay Harbor and the Gateway of India. This afternoon, he said he would treat me to lunch.

Lunch with Firdaus:
     I said goodbye to Nisha and picked up with Firdaus who led me up to the first floor dining hall (we had our interview in the lounge on the ground floor over coffee and lemonade) where we took a look at the menu and ordered.  Firdaus chose asparagus soup (he is closely watching his figure!) while I had Fish in Mushroom Sauce with potato croquettes and beetroot. It was fabulous--these colonial clubs have not lost the art of colonial cooking, that's for sure.  I realize now that I ought to order continental cuisine every time I am treated to a meal in one of these places. What they once served the gora sahib they now proudly serve the brown sahibs! And the food in unfailingly good.
     As always, Firdaus and I had much to chat about--literature, books, my research, his next trip to Europe (he retired as Chief Financial Officer of the Tata Group and now spends much of his time chasing opera performances in varied parts of Europe)--his next trip is to London in April to see La Forza del Destino by Verdi at Covent Garden. How fabulous is that???!!! Like me, Firdaus is a confirmed Anglophile and his favorite place is the whole world is London where we have often met and spent time together. He makes a very good case for retirement!

Off to See Kulsum Terrace:
     In the many interviews I have been carrying out, the building named Kulsum Terrace has been popping up repeatedly as theater people tell me how iconic it was in terms of shaping the early English language theater in Bombay through Theater Group that was founded there and had its rehearsals and early performances on its terraces. I told Firdaus that after Yohan Jefferries had told me exactly where it was located, I intended to go out in search of it.  Firdaus decided to walk there with me along the quiet arcaded Tulloch Road behind the Taj Mahal Hotel. We passed by his building and he pointed it out to me. Sadly, we could not visit his home as he had house guests in the process of leaving and returning to Canada in the midst of their repacking.
     A few minutes later, we were on Colaba Causeway and gazing up at the legendary building.  I took many pictures from both sides of the road--the Causeway and Wodehouse Road. Like all the buildings of its vintage (1930s), it has sprawling rooms inside but is not very well maintained on the outside. Still...hopefully, I shall have the pleasure of getting inside it when I go off to interview its current resident, Raell, the daughter of Pearl and Alyque, also a giant in the current theater business.

A Meeting with Fr. Tony Charangat, Editor of The Examiner:
     My next port of call was the Eucharistic Congress Building near Archbishop's House. Firdaus and I parted and I went to say Hello to Fr. Tony Charangat who has been a very old friend of mine. As Editor of The Examiner, he waits each year for my annual contribution to his special Christmas issue. The staff have also become familiar with my name through my byline and smile as soon as I introduce myself.
     Fr. Tony has recently gone through major heart surgery and told me that he had a series of epiphanies that deal with Christian theology about which he received new enlightenment as he was convalescing.  He tells me that he is in the process of writing a book about these extraordinary revelations.  He looked fit and well and has taken up the reigns of his work as Editor, as parish priest of St. Joseph's Church and as Principal of the school--how anyone can wear three hats at the same time is quite beyond my understanding! Still, he is also a brilliant raconteur and I always have a great time listening to his stories. He was instrumental in getting the former Principal of St. Xavier's College to offer to sponsor me as a Fulbright Fellow. So I also owe him big time and I said Thanks to him again. About an hour later, I left so that I could avoid the peak hour rush on the trains home. I took a 133 bus from outside the C.J. Hall and was at Churchgate in no time.

Back Home in Bandra:
     I was in Bandra an hour later. At home, I had a cup of tea and a cookie and went off to Dad's to spend a half hour with Russel. Then I too left to catch the Novena followed by Mass. After Mass, Dad asked me to come over to his place to read a few articles from the papers for him as he simply cannot read the fine print anymore--they were about the Reserve Bank of India and its current controversy with the Indian government over issues of autonomy and about the controversy surrounding the dropping of Mitali Raj from the Indian women's cricket team in a match that bombed badly for India. It amazes me how vibrant and stimulated Dad keeps his mind and how much he continues to want to be part of the conversations out there--at 88! I stayed long enough to serve dinner to Russel and himself as he then wanted to catch the last of the World Cup hockey match between India and South Africa on the telly--India was leading 5-Nothing.
    In my own home, I started watching Wanderlust on Netflix, a film with Toni Collete, an actress I quite like, while I ate my diner (a new tiffin had been delivered and I enjoyed cutlets, chicken curry and gherkins with half a guava for dessert). The movie has the most bizarre plot--about a couple who wished to bring back the zing in their long and boring marriage by getting involved sexually with other partners! I left it half way through so that I could get to bed but I predict this will not end well! I also realized that this is not a movie but a TV series--which is to be continued.
     Until tomorrow...