Wednesday, October 16, 2024

Another Doctor’s Appointment, Lunch at Shanghai Gourmet, Drinks in Brett’s Sunroom and Thai Dinner with Fairfield’s Indian Friends

Thursday, August 29, 2024

Fairfield, Connecticut

Another Doctor’s Appointment, Lunch at Shanghai Gourmet, Drinks in Brett’s Sunroom and Thai Dinner with Fairfield’s Indian Friends

Today was another day that was fairly unexciting although we did end it by meeting some of our closest friends in Fairfield. It’s funny how, as the years go by, you develop or create little gangs of friends that represent different aspects of your background, history and life. Well, these friends are first-generation immigrants from India who made their home in Fairfield County and with whom we connected, decades ago, so that our friendship has stood the test of time.

But to begin at the begin at the beginning: I drove alone to Trumbull to have my ultra-sound done and to get the opinion of my radiologist, Dr. Neil Specht, who gave me a clean bill of health (Thank you, Lord). That done, I picked Llew up from our lodgings at Sturbridge Lane. He had spent quite a bit of time, during my absence, doing his packing as we will be leaving the USA in two days and flying off to Canada with just a small backpack each. The bulk of our baggage will be left behind in the garage of our friends here in Sturbridge Lane. There is much organizing to do.

Lunch was going to be just the two of us and since we are making sure we have at least one meal in each of our favorite paces, we decided to eat at ‘Shanghai Gourmet’, a really modest Chinese eatery on the Southport-Westport border from where we have been ordering take-out food for years. This time, of course, we ate inside at the little table by the window. We both chose the Hot and Sour Soup that comes with the meal—but decided to simply take it home as it would be too much for us. For our main meal, I chose Shrimp in Hot Garlic Sauce, while Llew picked the Chicken in Mango Sauce—two of our favorite dishes. Both were served over brown rice and as we shared the dishes, we were able to enjoy both.

Lunch done, we returned to Sturbridge Lane for a short rest from packing and other worrying issues. When we surfaced, to face the evening, we realized that Brett had returned from work. As we had barely spent any time with him, it was great to chill on his deck while he fixed us drinks of our choice: a beer for him, red wine for Llew and a perfect margarita for me. With cheese and a few chips for nibbles, we had a very companionable evening while spending some quality time with Brett. His wife, Mary-Lauren, would return from her business trip tomorrow—an opportunity for us to spend some quality time with her.

It was time then for us to get ready for our dinner appointment—an evening out with our Indian friends. We had our showers, got dressed and drove to the Fairfield home of our friends, Dhiru and Kirti. It was Kirti who had initiated this evening’s gathering and I was very grateful to her for rallying the troops around to meet us. It was she too who suggested that we meet at a Bridgeport restaurant called ‘The King and I’ which was reputed for its excellent Thai food. Both Llew and I were delighted at the choice as we do really love the cuisine of Thailand.

As we were running a bit late, they were all set and ready for us and we left as soon as we arrived and parked our car in their driveway. Driving to the restaurant, provided us with the opportunity to catch up before the rest of the gang joined us. Kirti presented me with copies of two of her books (one of which has a blurb by me on the back jacket).

Within a short time, we arrived at The King and I, only to find that our friends had beaten us to it. It was great to meet Yvor and Angie and Delyse and Marcus. We had a wonderful reunion with all of them before we sat down to the serious business of studying the extensive menu and ordering. Finally, it was decided that we we’d get a selection of dishes and eat them family-style. A huge number of dishes were ordered for the table, each more delicious than the next. It was with very full tummies that we eventually ended our meal.

And on that happy note, our dinner and our day came to an end. Kirti and Dhiru drove us back to their home and from their driveway, we picked up our own car and drove ourselves back to Sturbridge Lane.

It had been another memorable day and we were grateful for the opportunity to spend it as fruitfully as we had done.

Until tomorrow, cheerio…

Monday, October 14, 2024

A Walk in Southport Village, Lunch with a Friend at L.C. Chen, An Evening in my Brother’s Home, Dinner at the Home of Fairfield Friends

Wednesday, August 28, 2024 Southport and Fairfield, Connecticut A Walk in Southport Village, Lunch with a Friend at L.C. Chen, An Evening in my Brother’s Home, Dinner at the Home of Fairfield Friends

Today was far more relaxing than it’s been in a long time.

My day began with a lovely long walk alone in the village of Southport, an opportunity to admire the glorious gardens of my former neighbors with their lush summer blooms and buzzing bees. Inevitably, I am pulled towards the Carousel Thrift Shop at the Congregation Church—a place from which I have picked up amazing finds over the decades. Today, I was particularly lucky to be able to get first dibs at a variety of vintage jewelry and I left with a nice haul.

Llew then had an appointment with his nephrologist, Dr. Weinstein and I accompanied him there. That done, we were just in time for lunch with our lawyer friend, Mimi, who was working from home today and managed to take time off to meet us at L.C. Chen’s, a pan-Asian place in Fairfield where we were delighted to see her again. She had been extremely helpful to us during our move from the US to India and I will never forget how energetically she worked to make our estate sale a success. We enjoyed Thai Coconut Curry, Shrimp with Cashews and Shrimp in Garlic Sauce, all served over white, steamed rice. Indeed we’ve been eating an overdose of shrimp on this trip as it is always our first choice from any menu.

After Lunch, Llew and I left Mimi to drive to Dairy Queen for Chocolate Cherry Blizzards—alas, no one can make them for us like our friend, Beth-Anne does. Sadly, she has been transferred to the Dairy Queen in Monroe—too far away for us to enjoy this favorite frozen treat.

In the evening, we drove to the home of my brother. We spent a lot of time with him, his wife and his daughter, Anaya as his son, Arav had left for university this morning. We had a lovely time with them over tea and cake and other goodies, but although they invited us to do so, we did not stay for dinner as we had already committed the evening to other friends of ours.

Dinner followed at the home of our friends, Swapna and Rasik, in their spacious new home about which they were so excited. As always, they were the epitome of warm hospitality as they plied us with drinks and nibbles and then got dinner organized. Here too, the star attraction was Swapna’s homemade Shrimp Curry which she served over streamed rice, as well as Sauteed Shrimp with chappatis, bread rolls, and a big salad. Dessert was Malai Kulfi. As always, we felt delighted at the prospect of meeting their young high school son, Parth, and spending time with them as a family. It is also an opportunity for us to see our dining room furniture which they had purchased from us when we were leaving Southport. Now that they have a separate dining room, the entire set is reunited again!

After a really lovely day spent with our nearest and dearest family members and friends, it was time to go back home to Sturbridge Lane and call it a night.

Until tomorrow, cheerio…

Sunday, October 13, 2024

Medical Appointments, Visit to Pequot Library, Lunch at Duchess, Celebrating our Wedding Anniversary at Quatro Pazzi in Fairfield, Connecticut

Tuesday, August 27, 2024:

Fairfield, Connecticut

Medical Appointments, Visit to Pequot Library, Lunch at Duchess, Celebrating our Wedding Anniversary at Quatro Pazzi in Fairfield, Connecticut

Nothing much happened today, but the day turned exciting at the end as Today is a Red Letter Day for Llew and Me—it’s our wedding anniversary!

Appointment with an Endocrinologist:

After eating a hasty breakfast at Brett and Mary-Lauren’s (my own granola with yogurt for Llew and me), we left for our doctor’s appointments. We had a bunch of them today. My first one was at Trumbull at the office of my endocrinologist, Dr. Glenn Rich. He did a thorough examination today (as he always does) and, good news this, I got a clean bill of health as my osteoporosis seems to have declined and I am no longer thought to have it. Always an annual concern, this. He also monitored my meds, having taken a look at my bone density analysis (which was also fine) and told me to see him again after a year.

Off to the Pequot Library:

With some time to kill in-between medical appointments, we decided to make another trip to the Pequot Library. This time, we were far more successful. Not only did we meet the Director, our good friend, Stephanie Coakley, but we also met some of the staff who know us so well: Christine (who organized the talks I have given—in person and on zoom) and, for the first time, I met Charlie, who had been the host of my last zoom talk there. He joined the Library staff after Llew and I left Southport—hence, we had only made acquaintance with him, long-distance. It was great fun to go back into the stacks and meet our friend, Sandy, and to find a few new faces. New volunteers are always joining the Library’s cohort (as we had done nearly 40 years ago). I took pictures with all of them (to immortalize these moments).

Off to the Dentist:

Then, it was time for my annual dental appointment with Fairfield Dental Arts. Llew decided to accompany me so that we could have lunch right after I was done. It is always a pleasure to meet the staff at this dental practice as I have been with them for more than twenty years. I was lucky to get Dr. Jessalyn Fiorella herself, on this occasion, as one of her staff members was absent and she was filling in. She did my annual X-rays and then was excited to introduce me to a brand-new cleaning system that they have installed which uses hi-technology power-jets to produce deep cleaning through high-jet sprays. The manual cleaning of each tooth is now no longer required. I must say that I was really impressed with the new system and also with the thorough diagnostic report that I was given at the end. What’s more, as I discussed my acute dental sensitivity with her, she suggested she coat my teeth with a fluoride layer that will last for a year and will provide protection against some of the sensitivity I have been experiencing. I was really delighted to have such wonderful treatments so easily available when I have my annual check-ups. I was frank enough to tell the dentist that I would probably not have the time to do follow-up work in the US and would have to do it in India. She was very understanding, but despite not needing to do it herself, gave me a full and extensive report which I will only need to take to my dentist in India to get the work done. I am truly fortunate in the medical personnel who work with and for me.

Lunch at Duchess:

As we were really close to Duchess, one of my favorite fast-food chains, at Fairfield Circle, we decided to go there for their over-stuffed sandwiches which we both love. We had Chicken Parmesan & Philly Cheese Steak Sandwiches which we shared. I must say that both Llew and I are having grave sticker shock at the prices of every item in the US today. There is no doubt at all that inflation has hit very hard and is reflected in the price of everything we buy—whether they are groceries, provisions or ready meals in restaurants. I am guessing that this will be a major factor in the coming US elections.

Rest and Relaxation After Lunch:

With nothing on the agenda this afternoon, we were able to get back home to Sturbridge Lane to Mary-Lauren’s. We had told Brett and Sage that we’d be taking them out to dinner as it was our wedding anniversary. Accordingly, we showered and had a chance to get some rest before it was time for us to keep our reservation appointment at Quatro Pazzi which was their choice for a nice Italian dinner.

Champagne Toast at Home and Dinner at Quatro Pazzi:

When Brett got back from work, in the evening, we opened a bottle of champagne (from the stock that we had actually left behind in their home). Sage was also present and we had a lovely toast during which we thanked them for hosting us and for a very comfortable stay.

Just a little later, we drove to Fairfield Center and found lovely seats at Quatro Pazzi where the portions are huge and the food simply delicious. We had Buratta with Pesto, Prosciutto and Roasted Red Peppers for a shared appetizer. Our Mains were: Capellini with Peas and Prosciutto (Sage), Rigatoni Burrata (Brett), Farfalle with Shrimp (Llew) and Linguine Pescatore (Rochelle). What a superly scrumptious meal it was! However, as expected, our pasta portions were humongous and Llew and I ended up taking half of our plates home in doggie bags.

Not to leave Dessert out, we then made our way to the Dairy Queen kiosk on the Post Road and ended up having wonderful Blizzards (my favorite type of ice-cream). These brought the curtain down on a very special wedding anniversary for us.

Until tomorrow, cheerio…

Saturday, October 12, 2024

Leaving Westchester, Mammograph at Fairfield, Lunch at Bonnie’s, Outlet Shopping at Clinton Crossings, Evening at my Brother’s, Dinner at Shake Shack

Monday, August 26, 2024

Fairfield, Connecticut

Leaving Westchester, Mammograph at Fairfield, Lunch at Bonnie’s, Outlet Shopping at Clinton Crossings, Evening at my Brother’s, Dinner at Shake Shack

Keeping a Medical Appointment:

Today was super crazy!

We awoke in our friends’, Allan and Anita’s place, in White Plains, Westchester, and since they had an early start and had already left for the day, we left as soon as we could, taking our things with us (only I left my black hoodie behind by mistake). We drove through quiet back streets using our Waze App and made our way straight to Trumbull where I had a 10.00 am Mammogram and ultra sound appointment with my radiologist, Dr. Neil Specht. But it seems I could only do the one and not the other as the technician was absent today. They gave me an appointment for the day after tomorrow, which means that I shall have to return to get it done. Huge Bummer!

Shopping at Walmart and Keeping Another Appointment:

Since I had an hour to kill, I told Llew that I would go to Walmart in Stratford and pick up our annual supply of Vitamins, Calcium and other supplements. This I did quite painlessly and then quickly drove back to Trumbull for my appointment with Dr. Glenn Rich, my endocrinologist. Turns out a change of systems & medical groups, caused me to be dropped off the schedule. Have been rescheduled for tomorrow at noon—double bummer!

Off for some Designer Outlet Shopping:

With a bit of time at our disposal (and realizing that we should make the most of every minute at our disposal and do all our intended shopping and not leave anything to be done in New Jersey, if we could help it), we decided to set off for Clinton Crossing. But our friend Bonnie insisted that we eat lunch at their’s before leaving. In fact, she had already set up a buffet of leftovers from her fridge—which we were glad to enjoy: Art’s flank steak with chimichurri sauce, Bonnie’s composed green salad, sweet potato fries, Lugano pizza from Centro. Yes, it was a delicious lunch and we enjoyed it.

But, not wanting to waste too much time, we got into our car and drove to Clinton, Connecticut. The place was empty—a far cry from Saturday afternoon when it had been heaving. Llew was very lucky, His intention was to get into Nike and buy himself a pair of sneakers—and he was very pleased to get a superb pair at a superb price. So the trip was vindicated. We poked around in a few other stores before we made our way back. Unfortunately, we were caught in horrendous traffic that slowed us down considerably. Still, we were back at Bonnie’s in time for showers and to pack all our stuff into the trunk of our car and bid goodbye to our friends as they would be leaving early tomorrow morning for their own trip to Cape Cod.

Leaving Bonnie’s, Settling into Mary-Lauren’s and Off to my Brother’s:

After saying our thanks and goodbye to our friends, we drove off to Southport to our friend, Mary-Lauren’s. Her husband Brett was working from home. It was he who showed us up to our room in their enormous home and made us feel comfortable. However, we did not stay long as we had plans to spend the evening with my brother.

The original plan was that we would have dinner at my brother’s place in Fairfield as both his children happened to be at home. Sadly, due to unavoidable circumstances, plans changed as they were unable to provide dinner. However, we had a lovely long visit with them and then left after taking a couple of pictures, as I knew that, with his son returning to uni, we would never get a complete family photograph again.

Dinner at Shake Shack:

One of my favorite upscale fast food chains at which to eat is Shake Shack and we decided that since we hadn’t eaten there yet, that would be our port of call. It was almost closing time when we got there, but we were able to place our order for their Shroom Burgers with Bacon and their extra-thick chocolate shakes which is exactly how I like them. Llew and I were the only ones at the place as we sat there and enjoyed our delicious dinner.

Just a little later, we drove to Mary-Lauren’s home and were very pleased to meet her, even if briefly, as she is off on a business trip, early tomorrow morning. We made some plans to take her out for lunch when she gets back as she will miss all the fun of the next few days with us at her place. However, her daughter Sage is home—which is a huge bonus as she is a very talkative and friendly young lady and it is always a pleasure to spend time with her.

All that was left was for us to say good night to our hosts and get ready for bed.

Until tomorrow…cheerio.

Friday, October 11, 2024

Sunday Mass in our Parish, Breakfast with Former Neighbors At Harborview Market, Lunch with Our Hosts at Centro, Dinner on

Sunday, August 25, 2024

Sunday Mass in our Parish, Breakfast with Former Neighbors At Harborview Market, Lunch with Our Hosts at Centro, Dinner on Long Island.

Today was another lovely day filed with reunions with old friends and neighbors. Once again, we left our hosts sleeping in (as they are fairly late risers) and left their home for the 8.00 am Mass at St. Anthony of Padua Church in Fairfield which was our Parish. It was great to be in the same church again—not much changes, does it? However, we did not recognize many of the people. All of the ‘regulars’ who used to occupy the pews around us were missing—probably on vacation as August is a month when most people move to other locales. Still, it was good to hear a great sermon again, to listen to familiar hymns belted out by Frank, our Music Director and, best of all, after Mass, to meet some of the friends who still remember us warmly such as Pat (a fellow-Lector), Eleanor (our Director), Frank (our Music Director who came down from the choir loft to meet us) and a couple of the ushers. We visited with a few of them.

Next, I took Llew to the Labyrinth Garden at the side of the church that was set up by our parishioners in honor or Fr. John Baran, our late beloved parish priest. It is a lovely space and we stopped and took a few pictures there.

Meeting with our Former Neighbors and a Beloved Dog:

Our next stop was right next door to our home in Southport—we were off to see our former neighbors, Ken and Pui Hom, who live just next door. But, most important of all, we were delighted at the prospect of meeting their dog, Gus, who adored his “Uncle Llew”. Yes, we had a nice reunion there but did not stay long as we decided to go out for breakfast. They chose the ‘Harborview Market’ at the Bridgeport border which has some really delicious breakfast items.

We ended up ordering coffees, almond croissants and pain au chocolat for the four of us which we ate outside with the lovely warming sun on our backs. It was a beautiful late summer’s morning in Fairfield and we felt very blessed in the beautiful weather we’d been having.

Bulk Buying at BJs:

We then bid goodbye to our friends and set off to BJs—the huge wholesale and bulk-buying place in Bridgeport from where we filled our cart buying our annual supply of the provisions that we either do not get easily in Bombay or have to pay exorbitant prices to purchase. These included decaff tea, decaff coffee, craisins, the particular toothpastes we like using, our vitamin supplements, oral hygiene items (such as gum picks), etc. I also bought a big pack of Ranch Dressing mixture, real maple syrup, etc. Anyway, our cart was full as we paid our bill and made our way to the trunk of our car to store all these items away.

Lunch with our Hosts:

By the time this chore was done, we’d be in great shape to meet our hosts, Bonnie and Art, at Centro’s, where we were meeting to treat them to lunch to say Thank you for their hospitality. And so after parking, we met them inside and decided to sit outside. It was such a lovely morning that it seemed shameful not to enjoy the sun.

Once settled down, Bonnie ordered a Lugano Pizza, Llew had a burger that was, somewhat disappointingly, served on a single slice of ciabatta bread and did not resemble a burger at all, Art had the Grilled Chicken Salad and I (to be different and eat something I had not eaten in years), chose Huevos Rancheros (Mexican ranch-style eggs) that was served on a grilled corn tortilla with refried beans, avocado, sour cream and tomato salsa. The meal was lovely. A couple of the folks at our table had a glass of wine but I stuck with water. Everything was delicious and as our friends would be leaving, the next day, for a few days in Cape Cod, it was also wonderful to treat them to this meal and have them all to ourselves.

Getting Ready for our Dinner Date at the Home of Long Island Friends:

During days that had been nothing but go, go go, we were happy to have the opportunity to return to our hosts’ home for a very short nap before we took our showers and left for the next item on our agenda: Dinner at the home of our friends, Doreen and John Bellomo at Syosset, Long Island. Since they had also invited our mutual friends, Allan and Anita Walther, we had decided to drive us to their place in White Plains in Westchester and leave our car in their driveway. We would then drive in their car to Long Island. As we also expected it to be a very late night, we had carried an overnight backpack with us as we would spend the night at the Walthers and leave early on Monday morning as we had doctor’s appointments lined up in Fairfield.

And so we followed our plan. The Walthers were waiting for us and with Anita’s mother also in their car, we made our way to Long Island. It was a great opportunity for all of us to catch up on all the travels the Walthers do and to tell them about our Great American Driving Tour which went off really well.

It is always a joy to see Doreen and John who are two of our oldest friends in the USA. They are always warm and generous hosts and we have so much to talk about when we meet. Doreen always outdoes herself in the huge menu she puts on the table. It was great to have two massive platters of antipasto (John’s Italian heritage kicking in—done by their daughter, Lauren) while we sipped drinks. And then, we all sat down at the table (including Doreen’s Mother who was also present) to enjoy her vast spread: Tandoori Chicken, Mutton Rogan Josh, Turkey Burgers and Baingan Bharta, Vegetable Pullao with Thai Green Shrimp Curry, Boondi Raita with Avocado, Corn and Mango Salad with Lemon Vinaigrette. Dessert was a Chocolate Coffee Cake made by Doreen and a Key Lime Pie that was brought by the Walthers. Gosh! We were ever so stuffed when we got up from the table as the variety of food offerings were just too hard to resist. And of course, conversation simply flowed around the table as we had so much to tell them about our retired lives in India and everyone’s plans for their own retirement. It was indeed a marvelous evening and we were really happy to have had the time to spend with them.

As the evening came to a close, we said our goodbyes and returned to the Walthers’ car. It was a very peaceful night that we spent at their home, after taking exactly an hour to get back from Long Island to Westchester.

And so another lovely day came to a close. A day in which we felt, again, just how blessed we are in our vast number of friends and in their fondness of and generosity towards us.

tomorrow, cheerio…

Thursday, October 10, 2024

Outlet Shopping at Clinton Crossing, Lunch with Friends at Gruel Britannia, A Special Visit to Special Fairfield Friends, A Fun Cookout with ‘Dinner Club Couples’.

Saturday, August 24, 2024

Boston-Connecticut

Outlet Shopping at Clinton Crossing, Lunch with Friends at Gruel Britannia, A Special Visit to Special Fairfield Friends, A Fun Cookout with ‘Dinner Club Couples’.

We had another glorious day today! It was all about returning from Boston to Fairfield, but en route we had such a lovely time too.

Leaving Boston and Shopping at Clinton Crossing Outlets:

We Left Andover, Massachusetts, rather early in the morning and without having breakfast as we wanted to get a head start. We had a 1.00 pm appointment for lunch with friends in Fairfield Connecticut, but prior to that, we wanted to stop at our favorite designer outlet stores at Clinton Crossing in Clinton, Connecticut, to get some shopping done. The road journey (with Llew at the wheel) was quick and uneventful and we arrived in Clinton at about 11.30 pm which left us about an hour for shopping.

It is always fun to return to Clinton Crossing and to the Westfield Outlets that are a couple of exits before it. We went to Westfield first and were absolutely shocked at how deserted the place is. Most of the designer stores have closed down and were empty—the place looked like a ghost town and that too on a Saturday! We could not believe it. I was looking for a black short-sleeved shirt with a collar but could not find it anywhere.

Not to be daunted, we drove on to Clinton. There, it did look as if everyone and his brother was out shopping. Llew specifically wanted a pair of Nike sneakers; but when he went to the store, he found the line outside it so long and the wait time to enter the store to be over a half hour! That was it! We could not afford the time. I looked for a couple of things I wanted (Clark shoes) and did, in fact, find two pairs of sandals I actually liked. There was nothing to be found in my other favorite stores: Ann Taylor, Coach, Lindt, etc. But with those sandals in the bag, we left with the thought that we would return on a weekday morning to pick up Llew’s shoes.

Lunch at ‘Gruel Britannia’:

My friend Leslie and her husband Sunil had planned with us to meet at ‘Gruel Britannia’, a little British eatery on the Post Road in Fairfield, where I love the food and the ambience (given that I am such a confirmed Anglophile). Leslie was already there when we arrived, a little after 1.00 pm and found ourselves seats in the house. Sunil, her husband, joined us just a bit later.

Before we sat down to catch up and order our food, I saw the owner of the place, Karen, whom I know well. I went up there to meet her and was quite delighted at the lovey reception I received. I asked if we could take pictures together and she readily agreed. In fact, she gave me her phone number and begged me to whatsapp them to her so that she could use them on all her social media pages. It was a lovely reunion as Karen is always warm and friendly—aside from being an amazing chef.

When I did return to our table to order, we ended up with me ordering Bangers, Mash and Onion Gravy (which was just superlative), a ⁠Turkey Sandwich with Bacon and Avocado and a Side Salad for Leslie, ⁠Shepherd’s Pie for Sunil and ⁠Coronation Chicken Salad for Llew. It was a proper pub lunch and the meal offered us an opportunity to chat about everything that has been happening locally since our departure, to the travels we had recently undertaken and our plans for the future. All too soon, it was time for us to part, but we were really pleased that we were able to see another set of friends whom we love dearly.

A Visit with Special Friends in Fairfield:

The next hour was spent in the home of our friends, the Deans, in Fairfield. They are the lovely people who had left their beautiful mountain cabin home in the Grand Tetons National Park for our exclusive use (even though none of them were staying there at the time). It was fabulous to see Virginia again and to meet Jimmy who was recovering from recent surgery. We sat outside on their deck overlooking their lovely garden and were thrilled to have the opportunity to meet their son, Jimmy, who was visiting from Montana. We were too full to have even a cup of tea with them but we did enjoy our chinwag and our chance to tell them how much we had enjoyed their mountain home and how grateful we were for the opportunity to stay in it.

An Evening’s Cookout with our Dinner Club Friends:

All that was left then was our evening’s plans—for which we were running a bit late. But we were trying to squeeze in visits with a variety of friends in different places—so it was inevitable that we would end up late at some events.

When Llew and I lived in Fairfield, we had been members of a Dinner Club that met every quarter to enjoy a meal in the home of one of our members. I had requested my friend Bonnie (in whose home we were staying) to see if she could organize one of our Dinner Club evenings while we were in town. Bonnie was quick to oblige and tried to make it happen: but, since August is such a busy month, several of the members had other plans. In the end, it was just Art and Bonnie and Dan and Amy who were free to join in.

Nevertheless, Bonnie went all out to organize a really lovely pot-luck do. For starters, there was a delicious Lamb Sausage from an Italian deli which we enjoyed with drinks on her beautifully-decorated deck. Then, Art did some fantastic grilling—we had flank steak with chimichuri sauce as his main dish and Bonnie provided all the sides: Boston baked beans, a lovely salad with ripe peaches, tomato and mozzarella, Amy brought a simple salad of arugula with shaved parmesan cheese. There was also grilled corn on the cob. For dessert, Bonnie cut us huge slices of her Carrot Cake with Cream Cheese Frosting. Best of all, was the very companionable chatting we did as darkness fell over Fairfield and the fireflies came out to play on the lawns. It brought back all the years of friendship that Llew and I have enjoyed with our Book and Dinner Club friends with whom we have been through so many good times and bad during our lives in the USA. It was such a lovely setting, reminiscent of the many years of Dinner Club evenings we have enjoyed through the decades.

with that, our day came to an end and we were happy to be able to simply climb up one floor and get into bed—after trying hard to give Bonnie a hand with putting things away (although she would have none of it).

Until tomorrow, cheerio…

Wednesday, October 9, 2024

In Beautiful Boston: The Ware Collection of Glass Flowers at Harvard Museum of Natural History, Lunch at ‘The Abbey’ with Friends; Touring JFK’s Childhood Home in Brookline and Dinner and Sleepover with Friends in Andover

Friday, August 23, 2024

In Beautiful Boston: The Ware Collection of Glass Flowers at Harvard Museum of Natural History, Lunch at ‘The Abbey’ with Friends; Touring JFK’s Childhood Home in Brookline and Dinner and Sleepover with Friends in Andover

We had a very early morning start today as we had a long drive to Boston. We set our alarm clocks in our friends’ Art and Bonnie’s home and with little overnight backpacks all ready, awaited the arrival of our friend, Amy, who would be riding with us. Her partner, Rothschild dropped her off soon enough and we were on our way. It was great fun having all those hours to catch up with Amy in the car as Llew drove us there. We did stop to get gas, at one point, and to use restrooms. We had one shocking encounter on the highway when we saw a car entirely engulfed in flames on the opposite side of the road—the very first time any of us had ever seen such a thing. But that apart, our journey was uneventful. We were skirting the city of Boston in no time and following our GPS, made our way straightaway to our first stop.

Finally Seeing the Ware Collection of Glass Flowers:

Our first stop was the Ware Collection of Glass Flowers at the Harvard Museum of Natural History in Cambridge, Massachusetts. I had first heard of this collection, about two years ago, when I had attended a webinar held by the Metropolitan Museum of Art for its Docents (during Covid). We were taken on a tour of this gallery and I was simply stunned as I had never heard of it and because I love glass so much, it filled me with great anticipation. Last year, I had wanted to travel to Boston just to see these galleries, but it had not happened. This year, since we had a rented car at our disposal, I was quite determined to see it.

It was wonderful to drive through Cambridge after ages and see landmarks buildings such as MIT and other colonial structures. We parked our car about three blocks from the museum and walked quickly to it. The Collection is on the second floor and is located in a single large gallery devoted entirely to it. We found it to be jaw-droppingly beautiful botanical work featuring leaves, flowers & fruit fashioned in glass by the Polish father-son glass artist duo of Leopold and Rudolph Blascha, Polish immigrants to the US, on commission from Harvard. It was the main reason I was keen to visit Boston again. And I was not disappointed. The items are life sized—which means that the details are so tiny that you need a magnifying glass to see them. These models were used as teaching tools for the students of Botany at Harvard. The only thing I found rather strange is that all the colors of the items have a muted look to them—almost as if they have faded with time. But that apart, they are so-true to life that it is hard to believe you are looking at glass. Just after we left the gallery, while I was browsing through the gift shop outside, I discovered that the duo’s work was so amazing that the Zoology Department went on to commission them to create a range of marine invertebrates in glass to be used as teaching tools for their students. These are housed in a small side gallery and feature octopi, jelly fish, etc. These are so stunningly true-to-life that you would be hard-pressed to believe they are really made of blown glass. The talent in this duo is simply astounding.

Lunch with Friends in Brookline:

It had been our original plan to leave this museum and head to the Isabella Stewart Gardner Museum. But we also wanted to meet our friends, Raquel and Chris, for lunch. Hence, we needed to find out when they would be free (it was a working day for them) to see us. As it turned out that they were free at this time (and would be tied up later), we proceeded straight out of Cambridge and towards Brookline as we’d agreed to meet them closer to their place of residence. Accordingly, we used our GPS to get there—it took us about twenty minutes.

Parking our car across the road, we made our way to ‘The Abbey’—a place they selected to have lunch with us. What a great joy it was to see them again—both looking so well and superbly settled in Boston! We’d all been together, a long time ago (2016) in London, UK, where we’d become good friends. They treated us to a splendid lunch at ‘The Abbey’, a classy American restaurant where we had a leisurely meal and did some serious catching up. Being the super classy folks they are, right after our lunch, they cleared the entire check. It was their treat—something we did not expect, but was completely in character with the generous folks they are. The menu was extensive and everything looked and sounded delicious. My Selection? A Kale & Brussels Sprouts Salad with Grilled Chicken and Fried Egg. Llew chose a burger with Cheddar cheese and string fries. Amy chose Grilled Salmon with Caesar Salad. Raquel ate Grilled Salmon on a bed of organic greens and I believe Chris had a burger too. Being much too full, we skipped dessert—but what a lovely time we had nattering throughout as we found out how well they are doing and what their future plans are.

A Reunion with a College Freshman:

After lunch, we met Jonas, Raquel’s 17 year old son, whom I adore, and knew very well when he was a little boy in London. It was SO GREAT to see him again after all these years. Even though I was warned that he was not a little boy anymore, I have to say that it was something of a shock to see the strapping, handsome, young man into which he has grown. I recalled him watching cartoons with me in my bed while his parents were still asleep in their room, making a gingerbread house with me during the holidays, accompanying me to the Museum of London where we had an interesting encounter with a crazy visitor while looking at the Mayor of London’s coach. He was reluctant to meet anyone (as you can imagine) as he was out shopping with friends. But his mother managed to persuade him to meet with me briefly and I was simply delighted to see him again.

Our Next stop: The Kennedy Birthplace Museum in Brookline.

With this visit with Jonas done, we were able to head off to the next place on our agenda, which also happened to be in Brookline. This is the home in which President John F. Kennedy was born and where he lived for the first four years of his life. The house, a modest dwelling, in which a young couple (Joe and Rose) started a family and began to raise them, never believing that their children would make American history, is located on a quiet, side street in Brookline. Entry to the home is free as it is administered by the US Parks authority. Periodically, there is a guided tour of the house, given by a US Park Ranger as the home was donated to the US nation by the President’s mother, Rose, and is run by the National Parks Service.

Inside, the house looks exactly as any other home of that era might look (1917-1920). It is neat, small, modest. There is a living room, dining room and kitchen downstairs and three bedrooms on the top floor. Furniture and fitments are also modest and in keeping with the era. The family was comfortably off but, by no means, wealthy, and the level of early economic status with which the future President was familiar is clearly evident in this house. The tour guide did a good job of introducing us to JFK’s early life with his siblings and his parents, as well as showed us the street as it might have looked in that epoch (through black and white pictures). There is nothing fancy to suggest that we were in a home that would raise several national statesmen and their future generations other than a larger-than-life cardboard cut-out of JFK right outside the entrance (where we posed for pictures). There is a small gift shop in the basement where visitors may also use restrooms. There was also a short documentary film playing on a loop and we watched that too.

We also looked at another house down the same street (Abbotsford Street) into which the Kennedy Family moved and in which JFK lived till he was a teenager. Overall, the visit was wonderful as it meant that we covered a place that few Americans themselves see. As it was about 5.00 pm and the house closes at this time, we then drove Raquel home to Brookline. She invited us upstairs and we were quite happy to see her lovely home which was very reminiscent of the home her family had once occupied in Maida Vale in London, where I had once stayed briefly. We said our goodbyes then to Raquel and Chris and moved on.

Next, we drove Amy to her parents’ home in Chestnut Hill, not too far away, as she would spend the next few nights with her mother. I had the great pleasure of meeting her Mum for the very first time (after being Amy’s friend for at least 35 years) and having heard so much about her family members. She is a delightful lady who immediately told me that she remembered that Amy had traveled to India with me.

Driving on to Andover:

Leaving Amy with her mum, we drove to Andover, about an hour away from Boston. There, we met our old Bombay friend, Aftab and his wife Masooma who welcomed us warmly with tea and snacks. Much nattering later, we had our showers & changed for dinner—a most delicious meal featuring Leg of Lamb (Raan) in a delicious tomato-based sauce, Shrimp with Greens & Mushrooms, Butternut Squash Soup and Chicken Biryani with salad. ⁠Dessert was honey yogurt with fresh mixed berries. The Bhaiwalas have an absolutely beautiful, palatial home into which they moved quite recently. Grand is the word that comes to mind in the overall dimensions of the place. It was great to catch up with them and meet and get to know Masooma whom we were meeting for the first time. But after 10.00pm, we were both wilting and ready to call it a day. We went upstairs to our room to enjoy a very peaceful night’s sleep while being fully grateful for the warm and generous hospitality of our friends—both Chris and Raquel as well as Aftab and Masooma. What an amazing time we had with great museums and terrific old friends in Boston! A truly unforgettable day!

Until tomorrow, Cheerio…

Monday, October 7, 2024

Fun Reunions with Multiple Groups of Friends in Fairfield, Connecticut, and a Couple of Routine Medical Appointments

Thursday, August 22, 2024

Fun Reunions with Multiple Groups of Friends in Fairfield, Connecticut, and a Couple of Routine Medical Appointments

Today was all about meeting Southport friends and breaking bread with them. We had incredibly lovely reunions with our large number of friends that made our day very special. And the food was fabulous too!!!!

Breakfast with the Pintos:

As Llew and I had made many appointments for Reunions with our friends at least two months in advance, I suppose it was inevitable that a couple of them would actually forget about our plans. This was the case with the Pintos—Ed and Marguerite—who have been firm family friends of ours for at least 35 years. They had just returned from Los Angeles themselves and were terribly jetlagged. So it was natural that while we arrived at 8.00 am for our Breakfast appointment with them at ‘McDonalds’ in Westport, they were nowhere in the scene. We finally texted them at 8.15 only to have them tell us sheepishly that they had overslept. They asked us for 20 minutes’ grace and were there within that time.

It is always a pleasure to see the Pintos. We always have so much to talk about…but this time, conversation was focused on their daughter Michelle and her three bright young lads—one of whom had just spent a week with the Pintos in Westport. Ed had many funny stories to tell about his interaction with this grandson. We also discussed our lives in Bombay and our health issues. Meanwhile, I really enjoyed my Pancakes and Maple Syrup with Sausage and decaff coffee. Before we knew it, it was 9.00 am and we had to say goodbye to them as we needed to drive to Trumbull for our 9.30 am appointment with our new dermatologist, Dr. Jeremy Moss.

Appointment with a New Dermatologist in Trumbull:

The trouble with having had the same doctors and specialists for over thirty years is that by the time you reach your age of retirement, they are retiring too. This is certainly the case with our internist, Dr. Monteiro and also with our dermatologist, Dr. Mark Ostreicher. Hence, Llew and I were seeing a new dermatologist in Trumbull called Dr. Jeremy Moss.

We found the place using our GPS and in no time had our sessions with the doctor. I now have a name for the strange uneven pigmentation issue on my skin that is causing tiny white spots all over it. Llew, strangely enough, has the exact same thing. Turns out it is a natural part of ageing and that large segments of the population (87%) have it. It is called Idiopathic Guttate Hypomelanosis (IGH for short) and requires no treatment as it is harmless. I was very satisfied with this diagnosis and, on a very happy note, we left.

b>Next Stop: Advanced Radiology:

Out next stop was Advanced Radiology in Stratford—a place to which I had been before—so that I would keep my 11.00 am appointment for a bone density test which my medical insurance covers once in two years. My endocrinologist was keen for me to undertake the test this year to monitor my level of bone calcium to prevent osteoporosis. And so there I was. Once I was taken in, it was a scan-like test that requires you to lie down and have scans done in your hip area. I had a skillful technician do it for me and in about fifteen minutes, I was all done. My test results would go directly to my doctors—my internists and my endocrinologist.

Off to the Pequot Library:

Next, we had a 1.30pm lunch appointment with my former Southport Book Club friends, but since we had about an hour to kill, we decided to stay within the Southport Village area and possibly see some old friends at the Pequot Library. And that was what we did. It was worth trying to squeeze in time to visit our beloved Pequot Library where we were volunteers for 32 years as we met our friends, Bob who was always fully active with our annual book sales and Leslie Mahtani (who works there as a librarian). Leslie is one of my closest friends. We took a few pictures together and then hurried along to our lunch appointment.

Lunch with Close Friends at the Pequot Yacht Club:

We met our friend, Alison Barry on the road, right after we found parking for our car. She too had been in my Southport Book Club (now sadly defunct) and it was great to see her. Our hostess, Joanie Frost, was also there, waiting for us and after warm hugs and affectionate whoops of delight at being together again, we ordered food inside and then sat down to eat it on the sunny deck overlooking the Mill River and the golf links across on the other bank. It was going to be Buffalo Chicken Wraps for Llew while I had the Beet Salad with Goat Cheese & Candied Bacon. Our friends chose salads too because they are wonderfully fresh in the summer.

The views across the harbor of the boats going in and out provide the perfect accompaniment for these sorts of summer meals and I loved the ambience of it all—so typically Southport in every possible way. We had a lovely chinwag that went on for almost two hours as we caught up on the goings-on of all our former Book Club members. To my delight, when I went upstairs to the top deck to shoot some pictures, I ran into yet another good friend, John Crocco, who was lunching with another friend of his. We visited with each other (and I brought Llew upstairs to meet John too) before we all parted and went our separate ways.

Appointment with our Optometrist in Bridgeport:

The next item on our agenda was our appointment with our optometrist, Dr. Simon, at Visions Center Associates in Bridgeport. Llew drove us there and, within a short time, we were greeting our friend Jeff who usually fits our glasses. Both Llew and I had our annual eye exams (also covered by our medical insurance) and soon we were coming to the conclusion that while there is a change in our glasses prescription, it is not worth making them in the USA. Jeff advised us to make them in India where they are much cheaper to make to order (and which is what we shall be doing). And so, that done, we made our way back to Bonnie and Art’s place to take rest and have our showers before we would be out again for the whole evening.

Early Light Supper with Friends at ‘Bloodroot’ in Bridgeport:

It is always a great pleasure for me to meet my dear friend, Dr. Elizabeth Petrino. We used to be colleagues and immediate neighbors (we shared neighboring offices) at Fairfield University’s English Department where I had spent two years as a full-time Visiting Professor before I obtained my full-time position at New York University. Liz and I had stayed in touch, over the years, as we got on really well and truly respect each other as scholars and as friends. Through the years, we have gotten to know members of our families too. Liz and her husband Tom are brilliant home chefs and we have eaten many memorable meals at their home.

This time, however, since I had a Book Club meeting to attend, a little later in the evening, and our Book Club meetings mean a full dinner, Llew and I asked Liz if she would do an early evening meeting somewhere closer to Fairfield as both Llew and I had plans for later in the day. They gladly obliged us and chose a health food place called ‘Bloodroot’, right by the water in Bridgeport (near St. Mary’s By The Sea) for our meal. It was super also to see their son, David, present. A lovely young man, he is in his final year at Fairfield University and is on the lookout for the most suitable college for his interests in Engineering.

In keeping with our desire to pick something light, I chose the Marinated Tofu Salad with Cabbage, Carrots and Sesame Seeds. Llew decided not to eat anything at all as he knew he’d have a load of finger food later. It was the organic Mixed Salad for Liz—a very colorful concoction that was visually most enticing. There was also dessert of Peach Cobbler for Liz—something from which I shied away. Llew excused himself and left a little early as Art was giving him a ride to his next appointment—a Boys Night Out (as traditionally occurred when we, Ladies, had out Book Club Meeting). It was at a place called ‘Brew Port’ in Bridgeport and off Llew went.

Book Club Meeting at Helene’s:

Not too long after supper, Liz and family offered to drop me off to the place in Fairfield where my Book Club Meeting would be held—it was the home of Helene, a new member who, in fact, took my place after I left the Club, a couple of years ago. She happens to be a lovely Frenchwoman who is married to an American man named Douglas. She does not live far from Mary-Lauren who introduced her to the Club.

It was absolutely joyous for me to see my Book Club girlfriends again. They congratulated me warmly on Chriselle’s wedding and wanted to know how it went and how she is doing. They were also discussing a book by Lisa See (whose books we have read before) entitled ‘Lady Tan’s Circle of Women’. I had intended to read the book in time for this meeting and had even downloaded it on my Ipad. But, needless to say, with all the travel and hectic activity I’ve had these past few weeks, it was simply impossible. I did enjoy listening to the discussion on the book and finding out that everyone liked it and all of them thought it completely worth reading. I have plans, therefore, to read it myself too, in due course.

After the book discussion, during which time we tucked into Helene’s dip with crudities and prosciutto-wrapped asparagus spears, we moved to her dining room to enjoy her dinner. She had been hard at work and missed our discussion but the salmon dinner she served us was good. It was Salmon Teriyaki accompanied by steamed beans and orzo salad. Dessert was Mixed Berry Crumble with vanilla ice-cream. Everything was wonderful. I felt as if I had never left the Book Club. It is amazing how Time seems to stand still when you are with old and very good friends. At any rate, I felt so fortunate that my gal friends included me in the meeting and welcomed me back so warmly. Bonnie, of course, gave me a ride back to her place as we were staying with her. When Llew returned, he told me that he was thrilled that the husbands of every single one of the ladies were present at the beer bar including Douglas (Helene’s husband) whom he was meeting for the first time. (Like all good guys, they did not take any pictures)! In fact, when Douglas got back home, we asked him to click some group pictures of us—which he did!

⁠It had been such a packed but fun day in our own former neck of the woods!

Until tomorrow, cheerio…

Sunday, October 6, 2024

Lunch at The Metropolitan Museum of Art with Fellow-Docents, Appointment with an Ophthalmologist and Dinner with Friends at ‘Il Tinello’.

Wednesday, August 21, 2024

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Lunch at The Metropolitan Museum of Art with Fellow-Docents, Appointment with an Ophthalmologist and Dinner with Friends at ‘Il Tinello’.

The Big Apple called today-and we responded!!! It was so fab to be New Yorkers again But to begin at the beginning of the day… We awoke this morning in yet another venue—the well-appointed guest room of our friends, Bonnie and Art, in Fairfield, Connecticut, where we had arrived well past midnight. It was little wonder that we woke late to go downstairs and find that Bonnie had put out a lovely mini-breakfast buffet for us: her homemade blueberry muffins, her homemade granola (she told me there was yogurt in the fridge) and Art had actually gone out, while we were still asleep, to buy me decaff coffee! Now how thoughtful is that? My mind was blown away! We had a quick breakfast, however, as we had to get to Manhattan on the first off-peak train, if possible. And, prior to that, we needed to drive to our friend, Mary-Lauren’s house to pick up a bag of my DVDs that she had left there for me. I was going to take those into the city to drop them off, later in the afternoon, at the apartment of my friend, Ruchi, who had offered to carry them to Bombay for me. So, there were 20 DVDs that I picked up that morning.

That done, we drove away without meeting anyone in the house as they were already at work. We parked our car in the Day Parking slot at Southport Station, bought our senior discounted tickets from the ticket machine and we were off.

Journey into Manhattan:

It was just wonderful to ride the Meto-North train again. Although it was reminiscent of the countless journeys we took, over three decades, into Manhattan to get to work, this was slightly different. We were clearly on ‘vacation’ and had a whole lot of things to think of that were not work-related. As it was end-August and my NYU faculty members were all on vacation, it did not make any sense for me to go to my old office building to meet anyone—it would be completely dead. Llew, on the other hand, had plans to meet his former colleagues and, in particular, our friend Anna, with whom he would have lunch. I was headed to the Metropolitan Museum of Art to have lunch with some of my friends.

So, I got off at 125th Street in Harlem (still filthy & smelly--as I always do when I am headed to the Met) and Llew carried on in the train to the last stop at Grand Central Station. I then walked one block down to the subway station and took the 5 train to 86th Street from where I walked a few blocks to the Met. It was already almost 1.00 pm. It was simply terrific to stroll along the Upper East Side (still immaculate and ultra posh) on a particularly lovely day when the temperature was just perfect. I reached the Met in ten minutes and at the Main Info Desk on the main floor, I found my friend, Friea waiting for me. One big hug later, we were joined by our other docent friend, Liz, and without much ado, we made our way to the Staff Cafetaria for lunch. It was great fun to see my learned friends again.

Lunch with my Met Docent Friends:

It is always a thrill for me to eat in the Staff Cafeteria at the Met for old times’ sake. You might think I’m crazy but, apart from the nostalgia element which is important to me (I spent years eating lunch there on Sundays in-between the Highlights Tours I gave), it really has one of the tastiest Salad Bars I know and I always looked forward to assembling a salad there and douzing it with their incredible Caesar Salad Dressing. I included stuffed dolmades (vine leaves with rice, herbs and pine nuts), artichoke hearts and tons of blue cheese plus cubes of grilled chicken—you can just imagine how scrumptious (and how large) my salad was! My two friends also chose salads and armed with these meals, we made our way to the fountain courtyard to eat.

Great food aside, the best part of these meals with long-time friends is the ability to catch up on everything that has gone on in our lives since the last time we met. And yes, we had tons to talk about—and we did. Plus, there was the bonus of meeting yet another docent friend, Carmen, who had also graduated with our batch of docent trainees in 2000! It was terrific having a reunion with her. So, in every way, it was a grand lunch and I enjoyed every second of it.

A Really Special Fashion Exhibition at the Met:

My friends advised me to make certain I took in the stunning exhibition in the Costume Institute entitled, ‘Sleeping Beauties: Reawakening Fashion’ which featured designs from everyone you can think of beginning with the 1950’s House of Worth & Schiaparelli to contemporary designers like Issac Mizrahi, the House of Dior, Alexander McQueen, Michael Kors, etc. What was amazing was that the designs were inspired by various elements from the natural world—flowers, fruit, vegetables, even insects. As with all Costume Institute exhibitions, the outfits were beautifully curated. Each one was a work of art in its conception, design and execution: what one needs to admire and note is the structure of each garment. I found it all breathtaking and spent far more time than I had expected.

Appointments with our Ophthalmologist off Park Avenue:

Still, towards the end I had to run as I had a 3.00 pm appointment with our ophthalmologist, Dr. Daniel Rosberger, who has been treating me for just a year (I had my last check-up with him exactly a year ago) and Llew for at least 15 years. Llew joined me there to get our annual check-ups. The testing, scanning, dilation, injection of veins with dye to ensure there was no bleeding in the eye, was all so detailed, but at the end, it was done. As always, I am impressed by the thoroughness of the procedures and the attention to explanation. The patient is never kept guessing about what is going on. Overall? News is not bad, at least not for the moment. Next check-up recommended for next year.

Stroll Down Lexington Avenue to Meet a Friend:

With our eyes well and truly dilated, we walked down Lexington Avenue. Llew told me he’d had a very nice lunch with Anna and had caught up on a lot of office news since his departure. We were headed to our friend Ruchi’s apartment on Lexington Avenue and spent a good hour gabbing with her, her husband and college-going son. It was wonderful to be in Manhattan again—to take in its energy, its verve, and its sense of being unchanging. We spent a lovely hour with Ruchi and I finally handed my DVDs over to her. I also met her older son (I know her younger one well) and her husband and after about an hour, with a promise that we would meet again in Bombay, we left.

Dinner with Close Friends at ‘Il Tinello’:

Having walked about twenty blocks downtown to Ruchi’s place, we had both worked up quite an appetite and were well and truly ready for dinner. So, next, we strolled down Lexington Avenue to keep our dinner appointment with two of our closest friends, Amy Tobin & her partner, Rothschild, at ‘Il Tinello’, a very glam Italian restaurant. Llew had last seen them when they had come to Fairfield to bid us goodbye, just before we left together for India. I had met Amy last August—exactly a year ago—when she had helped me so much in closing down my office at NYU and loading my stuff into the train. I will never forget how helpful she had been to me. A true friend in need! The meal was simply superb and the service outstanding. Bruschetta for a starter at ‘Il Tinello’ was followed by 4 different plates of Pasta: Orchiette with Brocolli Rabe & Italian Sausage (me); Rigatoni with Bolognese Sauce & fresh Mozarella (Amy); Ravioli with ground veal & spinach (Llew) and Spaghetti Vongole (with clam sauce—Rothschild). We shared Tiramisu for dessert. Italian is not my favorite cuisine for nothing!!!! There was much drama at the next table as the waiter rustled up a fancy dessert called Zabaglione for the ladies at the next table. It is such spectacles that make eating out in New York so much fun! Dinner done and the bill paid, the four of us walked two blocks ahead to Grand Central Station to take the train (and subway for them) back to Southport! What a terrific day we’d had in New York! We’d done all our errands and met good friends, we’d eaten superb meals and we’d used every minute of our time in The Big Apple.

Until tomorrow, cheerio…

Friday, October 4, 2024

Visiting the Wild Western Town of Deadwood and Flying from Rapid City, South Dakota, to New York City

Tuesday, August 20, 2024

Visiting the Wild Western Town of Deadwood and Flying from Rapid City, South Dakota, to New York City

After the thrill of going to bed in the Best Western Plus motel with the Northern Lights still playing in the skies above the prairie, we awoke to a very calm and very sunny day. Our flight would leave from the airport at Rapid City, South Dakota, at 2.00 pm which meant that we needed to be at the airport at 12 noon for our flight to New York City. Since we had the morning free, we decided to make the most of it and make a quick dash to the Western frontier town of Deadwood, right after we finished breakfast and checked out.

Breakfast at the Best Western Plus Motel:

As we discovered at ‘The King’s Inn’ at Cody, Wyoming, so too here in this hotel in South Dakota, breakfast was a regal repast. There was a large breakfast buffet from which we could choose to have all sorts of things including a hot breakfast. Llew and I ordered a Cheese Omelet each and ate it with sausages. I also had a Southern-style breakfast—gravy with biscuits (which are more like savory cheese scones). Both were just delicious and with decaff coffee, they would keep us going until lunch-time (in Chicago).

Off to Deadwood:

With breakfast done, we got into our car and began the 45 minute drive to Deadwood along a highway that was not too clogged with traffic, fortunately. As soon as we arrived in the Town, we parked our car in a public parking lot and went straight to the large sign that proclaimed our entry into this once-thriving town: “Deadwood, Main Street,” it said. That done, we crossed the street and went into the Visitor’s Center to pick up maps and inquire as to how we could best spent the two hours at our disposal.

A very helpful clerk told us to stroll down Main Street, get a feel of the town that is very well-preserved and then take a drive to Mount Moriah Cemetery to see the most famous graves there. And that was what we did.

Exploring Deadwood:

A word about why and how Deadwood attained prominence: During the mid-19th century, in the midst of the Gold Rush that brought thousands of prospectors flooding across the American plains as they made their slow and torturous way towards California (and from there on to Alaska), gold was actually found in some parts. The Black Hills that surround Rapid City and Deadwood did contain gold reserves. Naturally, these settlements acquired rapid prosperity as secondary businesses also flourished to feed the needs of the settlers who flocked to these parts.

Deadwood has changed little since its Gold Rush heyday. There is still a well-defined Main Street lined on both sides by shops, grocery stores, restaurants, hotels and, of course, a side-business of the days of prospecting was prostitution—so there are brothels on this strip too. All of the shops are geared to entice tourists inside and sport all the trapping of 19th century antiquity from signs in latter-day scripts as well as shop windows with antique merchandise. As these Hills produce something called Black Hills Gold, I was keen to buy a pendant or locket to match a pair of ear-rings I owned and a matching bracelet that a friend had once presented me. The locket or pendant would complete my set. I was, therefore, keen to buy one. However, there was only one jewelery store in Deadwood that dealt in high-end jewelry and I was lucky to find just one pendant that would match the pieces I already owned. Lew decided to buy it for me as a wedding anniversary present—as it would be coming up within the next week. Armed with that purchase, we made our way out.

Main Street is also the venue of the famous Saloon No. 10 where Deadwood’s most famous son was killed. If Cody, Wyoming, is synonymous with the name of Wild Bill (William) ‘Buffalo Bill’ Cody, so too Deadwood is known for a certain gentleman named James Butler (Wild Bill) Hickock. He was a surveyor by profession during the days when chuck wagons carrying settlers crossed the prairie. He would provide warnings of any dangers ahead to these pioneers—mainly in the form of hostile Native American tribes. As time went by, he also grew into a successful gambler and card sharp. He was associated with a woman named Martha Jane Burke aka Calamity Jane (although there is no evidence that they were romantically involved). On August 2, 1876, Wild Bill Hickock was killed in Saloon No. 10 by Jack McCall. He was buried in Mount Moriah Cemetery, just a few minutes outside of the town’s boundaries. We entered the Saloon and were delighted to find that it retains its 19th century ambience to the T with every single one of its fitments still in place including the massive oakwood and glass bar. We continued our walk to the end of the street and then crossed to get to the other side to take in the atmosphere there. Finally, with just an hour before we needed to begin our return drive to the airport, we walked briskly back to our car to drive in it to the Cemetery which we found just ten minutes later.

Visiting Mount Moriah Cemetery:

Busloads of tourists come up to Mount Moriah Cemetery—packed especially with people for whom Wild West lore is a passion. We had just fifteen minutes there and were directed by the lady selling tickets ($3 each) to the two graves that are the biggest tourist draws—those of Wild Bill Hickock and Calamity Jane. Although there is no evidence of anything other than professional associations between them, Jane, who died on August 1, 1903, ie. a good quarter century after Wild Bill had expressed a dying wish: “Bury Me Beside Wild Bill.” Her wishes were honored and visitors to his grave automatically show their respect to her’s as well. In this interesting way, she has attained the same notoriety as he has!

With this visit done and photographs clicked, we hurried to our car to begin the drive back to Rapid City airport which would take us approximately one hour. We also needed to return our rental car at the Budget Car Rental office—so we needed to give ourselves adequate time.

We arrived at the airport on schedule and went through the formalities of retuning our car. We then checked in our large bags and went to the gate for our American Airlines First Class flight to New York City via Chicago. Once the flight took off, we were offered drinks of our choice. Llew had red wine, I had a gin and tonic—to celebrate the end of Phase Two of our travels and a very successful Great American Road Adventure. Two hours later, we were touching down at Chicago, but were very hungry. We had enough time during our layover to go out in search of lunch and it was at Rick Bayliss’s Frontera (Mexican) restaurant that we decided to share an order of Fully Loaded Nachos which were actually quite delicious with wonderful guacamole, black beans, etc. Our meal eaten, we went to our gate and boarded the flight for the second leg of our journey to Kennedy Airport.

Travel from New York City to Connecticut:

It was about 9.00 pm by the time we touched down at Kennedy airport. As we had an enormous amount of luggage, and had another car to rent from Budget, Llew left me at the carousel to pick up our baggage and took the Air Train to get to the Car Rental offices at Federal Circle. I picked up a cart and loaded our baggage on to it and then made my way outside the airport to the Passenger Pick-Up area where Llew would arrive, half an hour later, in another rental car to get us to Connecticut where we would be spending the next few days.

Our journey along the highways to Connecticut were uneventful but packed with nostalgia for both of us as we were now in our habitual neck of the woods taking such highways as the Belt Parkway, the Cross Island Parkway and the Throgs Neck Bridge before getting on to the I-95 to Connecticut. We were stuck in terrible traffic along the way as there was a whole of construction going on. Meanwhile, we were in phone contact with our friends, Bonnie and Art, with whom we’d be spending the next four nights. They were well aware that we’d probably reach them well after midnight, but they were pleased to know that we were safe, even if delayed.

About 90 minutes later, we had passed our own home on Pequot Avenue and were thrilled to lay eyes on it again. The village of Southport was dead to the world, of course, when we passed through its familiar landmarks—the two churches and the village center—and soon we were at our friends’ home. We were very warmly greeted and welcomed by the two of them and shown up to the beautifully-decorated guest room where we would spend the next few days. It was fabulous to see our friends again and we looked forward to the good times that lay in store with them as we would go through all our doctors’ appointments in our former stomping ground.

It was not long after that we simply crashed and called it a night.

Until tomorrow, cheerio…

Thursday, October 3, 2024

Sighting Three of the USA’s Most Iconic Monuments: Devil’s Tower, Crazy Horse Memorial and the Grand Daddy of them all, Mount Rushmore…Plus, Sighting the Northern Lights over South Dakota.

Monday, August 19, 2024

Sighting Three of the USA’s Most Iconic Monuments: Devil’s Tower, Crazy Horse Memorial and the Grand Daddy of them all, Mount Rushmore…Plus, Sighting the Northern Lights over South Dakota.

Today was one of the most fulfilling of the many exciting days we have had on this trip. Today was all about rock formations & mountains in the American West as we shared the 6-7 hour drive from Cody in Wyoming to South Dakota. Three major rock formations made our day all about Bucket List ticking off!!!!

Breakfast in ‘The King’s Inn’:

As I explained in my blog post yesterday, ‘The King’s Inn’ in Cody, Wyoming, has a lobby crammed with stuffed African wildlife. The ‘King’ in the name of the hotel refers to the Lion, King of the Jungle. It is featured on the logo of the hotel and is the focal center piece of the lobby which features a lioness going for the kill—an antelope in its deadly grip! It’s quite terrifying, really.

Anyway, visitors to the hotel have no escape from the drama surrounding them, albeit taxidermied—as breakfast (included in the tariff) is served in the lobby which has tables and chairs on its periphery. As you munch your breakfast, you can look upon African wildlife in the process of hunting for their’s!

I must say that breakfasts in motels have come a long way since the time we were led to a lobby to a coffee machine with a couple of muffins under a plastic dome. This breakfast was a right royal repast and lived up to the name of the place! We were led to a large room in which there was every kind of breakfast imaginable—including hard-boiled eggs. There were bagels with cream cheese in a small fridge, bread of various kinds (that you could toast yourself) and a number of spreads and preserves. There were a variety of cereals. There was even a waffle maker—imagine! You could make your own waffle as the batter was ready and available—all you had to do was follow clear instructions and wait. I was overjoyed. Needless to say, I made myself a waffle and had it with maple syrup and light cream. With good coffee and fruit (in little plastic cups), it was a delicious and most satisfying meal. We would not feel hungry again until late in the evening.

The Drive from Cody, Wyoming, toward South Dakota:

When we’d finished loading our backpacks into our car, we happened to run into a couple of motor-bikers with whom I entered into conversation in the hotel car park. They were on a cross-country trip having begun in Pennsylvania and working their way to California. When we exchanged notes on where we were headed next, I told them that we were off to see Mount Rushmore—an item that has long remained on my Bucket List. They told me immediately that I should make a detour en route to see Devil’s Tower.

Now, while reading blog notes based on this trip, of various bloggers, prior to leaving India, I had first heard about Devil’s Tower and at the back of my mind was a thought that, time permitting, we should try to see it. However, it had not been a priority for me. But, after chatting with these individuals, I was convinced that we should make the detour as we might later regret that we were so close and yet ignored it. When Llew was ready to leave (he had been paying our bill and checking out at Reception), I told him about the bikers’ recommendation and we immediately decided to go there. We put the address into our GPS, using the Waze app and off we went. We crossed one mountain range after the other on our journey: all the way from the Shoshone Mountains to the Black Hills of the Dakotas, we made the most exhilarating scenery. It was nothing but rugged mountain landscape, the kind you see in Western movies, with rising peaks, red canyons through which we drove with wonder, miles of dessert scrubland. We drove around hair-raising hairpin bends as we rose up great mountain heights and then wound down to endless miles of prairie plains. We went past red rock mountains, tiny one-horse villages and road works that periodically held us up. At one stretch, we followed railroad tracks (built during the glory days of the Trans-Atlantic Railroad construction in the mid-1800s) that went on for miles. It immediately launched us into a conversation about the pioneers who traversed these hostile lands in the days when there were no tarred roads—just virgin grasslands—and certainly no railroad lines. My mind took me back to the days of the stagecoach and of the dangers involved in crossing the prairie in chuck wagons. It was hard to imagine the kind of hardships those early settlers endured in their passage westwards.

The entire drive took us about 6-7 hours. We did not stop anyway for food (as we were not hungry), although we stopped for gas and restrooms at a local gas station. All the time, we kept fighting the clock as we wanted to get to our ultimate destination, Mount Rushmore, before nightfall.

Arrival and Tour of Devil’s Tower:

Getting to Devil’s Tower meant swinging off the main highway and taking a dusty by-road that took us deep into desert country. We drive for miles before, in the distance, we discerned a faint structure on the horizon that turned out to be Devil’s Tower. As we drove closer, the structure revealed itself. It’s a natural rock formation created by magma (lava) erupting out of the earth and cooling in the shape of uniform, pencil-like basalt columns. It looks like a stupendous tree stump. Amazing! What is even more amazing is that it is the only erect structure for miles. There are no minor structures that surround it or are anywhere close to it. For all these reasons, it is America’s 1st National Monument, named so in1908 by President Teddy Roosevelt (who probably visited the site at the same time that he visited nearby Mount Rushmore that features his profile on the mountain top.

Once we reached the site, we parked and walked towards the Visitors’ Center. We used rest rooms here and looked at the small exhibit that is run by US Park Rangers. It explains how this natural formation occurred and why it is protected today. There is a small gift shop attached to the Center where visitors can buy the ubiquitous T-shirts, magnets, etc.—which we did.

Since time was of the essence, we did not waste too much of it but drove on towards the next rock formation that was also highly recommended by all the guidebooks—Crazy Horse Memorial.

Visiting Crazy Horse Memorial:

By the time we followed signs (single lane dusty country roads) to arrive at Crazy Horse Memorial, it was already 4.30 pm. The site closes at 5.00 pm, which would leave us just 30 minutes to see it. Also, unlike Devil’s Tower and Mount Rushmore, to which we would proceed later, this site is not run by the US Federal Government. It is a private site and, therefore, visiting it carries a fee of $15. It did not seem worthwhile to us to spend $30 for a half hour visit. The ticket seller at the entrance suggested we return tomorrow (not knowing that we would be far away from this area by tomorrow). However, he kindly allowed us to drive us a little ahead to the bottom of a slope from where we could take really good pictures of the monument.

So, here’s a few aspects about this place and its history. It is close to the Town of Custer (which is named, as you guessed, after General George Custer who had a major defeat at the Battle of the Little Big Horn--referred to as ‘Custer’s Last Stand’). The battle was one of the many that comprised the Great Sioux Wars of 1876 and involved the native American Lakota tribe under the leadership of their Chief Crazy Horse. Since the monument at neighboring Mount Rushmore (a 45 minute drive away) gained so much fame in its celebration of the heroism of four US Presidents, the Lakota descendants of Chief Crazy Horse believed that he too should be celebrated and memorialized in some tangible way. Hence, they hired sculptor Korczak Ziolkowski who began working on a sculptural monument about thirty years ago. To date, it remains a work-in-progress—moving forward in very small steps. It features the Lakota Chief Crazy Horse with his horse. Way up on the topmost tier, you can easily see the subject’s face in profile. He has also begun work on the horse’s face to the right—but as not a lot of work has been accomplished so far, you cannot yet discern the profile of a horse. In my opinion, at the rate at which the sculpture is progressing, it will be decades before it is completed. I am not sure whether the lack of funding is holding back completion or if other factors are responsible for the snail’s pace at which it is moving.

We stayed at this spot, about half a mile from the official parking lot, only long enough to take pictures there. We then turned around and drove right back to the entrance.

On to Mount Rushmore:

Forty-five minutes later, we were at Mount Rushmore. Finally! I had made it to Mount Rushmore!!! I have to pinch myself to believe I was there! For so many years, I had seen photographs of this astounding monument. In Alfred Hitchcock’s film,’ North by Northwest’, starring Cary Grant, a large segment of the plot is set at Mount Rushmore. It gives the viewer a very graphic idea of the height of the mountain and the size of the sculptures in relation to it. I remember being blown away by those scenes and resolving to get to this site someday. And finally, it had happened.

We arrived at Mount Rushmore at 6.00 pm. There was still ample daylight enough for us to park our car in the official parking lot (cost $15 per vehicle) and make our way to the entrance, about a five minute walk away. As you enter the premises, your eye takes in the grandeur of the monument ahead—for at this point, you can see the mountain. What makes Mount Rushmore so special? Well, four of the greatest US presidents are sculpted on this mountain—Washington, Jefferson, Lincoln & Theodore Roosevelt. It is a magnificent accomplishment from sculptor Gutzon Borglum (whose bust sits at the entrance) and more than a hundred assistants. I’m not sure what inspired the idea—but it is original and quite spectacular indeed.

Arriving at 6.00 pm. gave us enough time to have a leisurely look at the exhibition inside a special museum-like space and to take a guided tour (with a park ranger) who pointed out highlights for us. We then watched a short film on the making of the monument and bought a couple of souvenirs. It is a really beautiful exhibition which details the engineering details that made the sculpture happen—indeed the talents of the sculptor had to match those of engineers and architects who built the structural support system that would permit the sculptor and his assistants to spend hours fashioning the features of the Presidents out of granite and then to polish them to a smoothness that is most impressive. What is astonishing is that each of the Presidents looks exactly as they actually were in real life—the resemblance is striking. But, I must add, that visitors can only see the monument from the base of the mountain. This is the one and only perspective that visitors receive. Hence, it makes sense to watch the documentary in the Museum as it positions the camera within inches of the nose or the mouth of the subjects—incredible! No mode exists, at the moment, for visitors to be hoisted up the mountain to receive a closer perspective of the subjects.

Staying For the Dramatic Stage Show:

As if viewing the achievement of the sculptured monument is inadequate, the US Park Rangers have set up an interesting side show, at the end of each day, to serve as a fitting finale to one’s visit to Mount Rushmore. They have erected a stage at the foot of the mountain just in front of the vast amount of remnant granite that was chipped away from the mountain during sculpting. As no more knows better how to create pomp, splendour and spectacle than the Americans, there is a sound and light show that lasts about half an hour each evening. We were lucky that we had arrived in time for it. In fact, we were lucky that we had arrived in time to see the monument by daylight, then to watch twilight fall all around it and finally to see it illuminated artificially as darkness fell.

show began at 8.00 pm by which time every single one of the seats on the stands erected facing the stage were filled. It lasted half an hour and involved the sudden lighting of the monument to allow for the illumination of the sculpture. This was so skillfully done that only the light fell upon their features—you could not see the concealed light-bulbs at all.

Once the lighting was done, there was a slide show that took us across the length and breadth of the United States highlighting its most distinctive natural monuments such as the Grand Canyon and its best man-made landscapes such as the New York City skyline and the Golden Gate Bridge. While those slides played, patriotic Souza marches could be heard in the background. Then, at the very end, all veterans and service men, past & present, were called up on the stage for the flag-lowering ceremony (there was a prominent flag that had been waving on stage on a flagpole throughout the show). There was a really good emcee who then invited people to sing, “America, The Beautiful” and when that song ended, as the flag was lowered for the day, the national anthem was sung with the veterans still on stage. When its last notes were sounded, the emcee invited the crowd to clap for the servicemen as a gesture of gratitude for their service to the nation. Indeed, it was a most stirring ceremony at the end of an awesome day and contributed a great deal to the sense of patriotism that you will feel when you are at this sight.

At about 8.45, we hurried out with everyone else so as to get to the parking lot and out of it, as quickly as possible, as we anticipated a long wait with everyone trying to leave at the same time.

Engulfed by The Northern Lights:

It was while we were leaving the settlement of Keystone and the heights of the mountain range that comprises Mount Rushmore and while we were making our way to our hotel for the night (which was situated about an hour away in Rapid City, South Dakota) that we had one of the greatest highlights of our travels. You would imagine that nothing more spectacular could possibly be seen by us that day. Well, you’d be mistaken!

As I was driving down the mountain, one major flash of lightning followed by about a dozen others in quick succession, hit me. The skies were tinged a vivid pink and each time the lights flashed across the skyline, the pink, engulfed by the clouds, became visible. It took me a few seconds to realize, as the lights danced in front of me and sounds emanated from the skies that I was not just watching lightning—we were actually seeing The Northern Lights! This phenomenal natural feature that is usually visible in the uppermost reaches of the globe, was actually here, before our very eyes, in South Dakota. Now, we have traveled to Iceland to see the Northern Lights and when we’d done so, we saw only a very faint movement of grey clouds. To think that we were witnessing one of Nature’s greatest (and rarest) spectacles was so overwhelming to me that I had to pull up on the highway to shoot video & stills. This is the kind of unexpected bonus that has often made our travels truly unforgettable! We could not have had a more fitting finale to our travels!

The Northern Lights went on and on for over two hours. They followed us all the way along the highway to Rapid City and to the parking lot of our hotel for the night, the Best Western Plus where, even after parking our car and finding our way to our room on the first floor, we could still see them staining the sky in periodic flashes that made the pink waves very distinctive indeed.

We ate cereal bars and had hot coffee in our rooms (obtained from the lobby below) before we had our showers and called it a night—at the end of what had been a truly unexpected day!

Until tomorrow, cheerio…